We just got back today from a big trip Pete planned in the spring! He said if he sold the little blue house (where we lived while building the big house), he wanted to take us on a cruise. We did sell the house and checked on different dates. Christmas seemed to be the best time to go! We celebrated Christmas with our families early this year; and on Andrew's 17th birthday, we took off!
We stopped at Chuck E Cheese in Winston to have a late lunch after the boys got out of school. Meg met us there with sweet Sarah and precious Alice. Sam loves Chuck E Cheese ~ it was his request when he was in the hospital so sick last year. So there was meaning behind going there to have a little fun and eat pizza! We are so thankful he is doing well.
We spent the night in Greensboro before flying out the next morning to Florida! We had no trouble with security and Sam's diabetes stuff ~ just some sympathetic looks. We drove to Cape Canaveral and spent the night before boarding a ship for the Bahamas and Cocoa Cay. It was cold, but we knew it would warm up on the cruise! We boarded the ship on Christmas Eve.
We had a fun time on the ship even though it was cold, and Cocoa Cay was canceled due to rough waters! It was too cold to be on the beach anyway! We did get off at Nassau on Christmas Day and walked around a bit. The boys bought some dvd's from a street vendor, and Pete got me a new pocket book that reminded me of the one I bought in England over 18 years ago when I visited Cindy for two weeks! We walked a lot ~ from the second floor to the 11th where we spent a lot of time. We certainly did not gain the pounds a lot of people do on cruises! He also bought me a new necklace with our ship "credit card", so we had fun doing those things that we never do!
After coming back to Florida, we went to Disney ~ something I had always wanted to do with the boys. The older boys loved it until it got crowded. It was in the low 30's, and Sam had a great time ~ even riding some of the big rides with the boys. Watching my boys at Disney, I realized once again that it does not take much to make them happy. And I am thankful for that! Our neighbors know they can take a small plastic sled and have more fun for hours than doing something elaborate!
The boys played in the pool at the hotel and then got in the hot tub ~ there don't seem to be many indoor pools in Florida! They played arcade games and cards with Daddy.
And we shopped! Well, Andrew and Pete went to a movie. Will and Peter checked out Bass Pro Shops. So Sam and I went to a few outlets ~ and yes, we were able to fit five pairs of shoes (unreal deals) in our suitcases!
We flew back this morning and were surprised to see the snow on the ground from the air - in Greensboro! We were happy to get back home!
We had a special time as a family and were so thankful and fortunate to enjoy such a vacation together. Andrew is going to be a senior next year, and Peter is right behind him! Time is flying by too quickly!
In the time away, we were able to put away some of the day to day worries of being home. I know I am not supposed to worry, but the change of scenery did us all good.
We all loved watching Sam on the plane ~ no big deal to him at all! He loved it; but I see that even though he may not want to be near Santa or a Disney character, he still loves to do fun things that I would think he would be hesitant about. Watching him do brave things is not lost on me. It will serve him well as he goes through life and its challenges.
We are looking forward to a great 2011 ~ one filled with great, encouraging things. The more I read and pray, the more I find that I may not be looking for the right things. I hope this time away will be a reminder to me that God is indeed in control and has blessed us with such a wonderful family. He will walk through anything and everything with us. And we already know that from experience. But reminders are always welcome! And I am not going to be too hard on myself if I am scared, frustrated, exasperated, or all of the above. I need to keep turning it over to Him.
Today is our anniversary ~ 22 years! We got married on a rainy Friday night, on the 30th. We were juniors in college and wanted to make it easier for our guests and participants and also not ruin everyone's New Year's plans. The church was decorated for Christmas, and I wore my sister's dress. I remember eating chocolate ice cream that afternoon and my brother asking me if I should. I told him I had just tried on the dress a few days before and had plenty of room! Pete and I were so excited just to get married and be together! We went to Ocean Isle on our honeymoon and saw snow plows (borrowed from another county!) returning from an unexpected snow! We have had ups and downs and know God has truly blessed us by keeping us together and giving us our boys. We thank Him for that ~ and give Him all of the credit and glory.
Happy New Year from our family! We wish for you a wonderful and blessed 2011 where you also look for the special blessings and plans God has just for YOU!
Thursday, December 30, 2010
Friday, December 10, 2010
"Christmas Letter"
It's beginning to look (and feel) a lot like Christmas! There is snow and more coming! The houses have wreaths on the doors and Christmas trees lit up in the windows. And the Christmas music on the radio (only Christian radio for me) ~ one of my favorite parts!
As I reflect on this past year, I see clearly how thankful I should be and am. We have come so far since last fall. And though I am still relieved when I wake up each morning to find each child is fine, I know it can get much better than this if I let it (let God).
A couple of weeks ago, I left early in the morning to meet "the girls" for a Christmas shopping trip. I listened to my music and then started talking to God. I can just talk out loud in the car. And I cried...and cried...and cried. So much for the carefully applied tiny bit of eye make-up! It was Katelyn's birthday, and she would be 19. I always get emotional - each of those 19 years - remembering that precious little bundle. And I always want to be closer to God and pull myself back to Him when I take the time to think of her and the impact on my life. She is one the top ten in my whole life for sure! So I cried and talked and sang and felt a "good" worn out by the time I got there. I gave Whitney a gift to celebrate and remember the special day. I know Dwayne especially loved the Snoopy stuff in the bag and the "Away in a Manger" Christmas plate, because they just don't have enough things like that at their house! It was a special day to spend with my sister and other special people. We don't even have to talk about Katelyn - we all know what we felt and what we remember. And we are all better for knowing her.
As we approach December 22 (too quickly - date AND year!), I flash back for the last 17 years since I first became a mom. Andrew was such a good baby. He was gentle and quiet, and everyone loved him. He was well behaved and easy to get along with. He has grown and endured so much in his years. We are so thankful we were chosen to be his parents. He is doing well right now - and we are looking forward to him growing and getting where he needs to be. He has a doctor's appointment next week, and then we will probably go to see an immunologist after the first of the year. This is something the pulmonologist has recommended after reviewing Andrew's unbelievably long chart. He has been studying in the library about auto-immune issues! He called and talked to me day before yesterday. So we will continue to try to take care of Andrew's things as they come and try to be a little ahead of things. I just have to keep remembering that God is right with Andrew and loves him even more than we do. I cannot even begin to explain emotions I have had dealing with Andrew. I have been frustrated, sad, scared...But he is moving right along. As he gets older, I appreciate this about him even more.
Peter and Will continue to help a lot with Sam - and Andrew does also. They help me so much on snow days ~ and we have already had a week of "run throughs" this week. Peter makes me cookies and chocolate milk and loves to tease with me a little bit. He is like he has been his whole life - easy to get along with and good about including most others. He has hair that women spend millions to get each year. He is really growing in a lot of ways - and I am excited to see what he does the next couple of years.
Will is either hunting, building, working, or bothering one neighbor or another. He would be my choice of my luxury item if I ever go on Survivor. He is very matter of fact and innovative like his daddy. He still checks Sam's blood sugar each day before lunch and gives me lots of peace of mind that he is at the same school. I don't know what I will do without him there next year! He is running some, and we are tickled but not pushing him to run at all. I would love to see what he could do with some training. He is one tough child.
Sam is doing well. He also goes to the doctor on Tuesday ~ if we can get out of town to get to Charlotte with this snow storm coming! We are anxious to see what his average blood sugar has been. He has just had to increase one insulin - which is hopefully because he is growing. He is getting much taller and has the same long legs as his daddy. But he is so skinny still! When he gets a little more meat on him, it will be much easier to give shots. But he is very tolerant and learning more about taking care of himself every day. He loves kindergarten but does better with a smaller group. He is much like Andrew at school but has a lot of the same Peter and Will traits too! They love him so much - we all do!
Pete is in Housing Operations at Appalachian still. I have been gone from Admissions for a year now - but some people are just now noticing! I love my job at the pediatrics' office and love the flexibility, very low stress, and part-time hours. It has been so good for all of us.
Pete continues to work on our house. We have one more bathroom to renovate and one to finish. He has taken a break to work on outside projects. This house should keep him busy for a while which is a good thing. It was so hard to leave our new house when we did - after working on it for three years. And it seemed to be harder later. I have worked through all of that, but I know what it is to let go of material things on this earth. "Less is more" is my brother's motto, and I have taken that on in a lot of ways too. I have been getting rid of "things" for a year now - and it feels so good! I feel the need to simplify my life so I can focus on what is most important. I am reading Dave Ramsey's book - finally. I found it at the $5 bookstore for $8.99. I love to hear him on the radio, and Mike Grigsby has told me about him for years. I think this year will have a lot less financial stress, and I am looking forward to that!
Pete has planned an extra special vacation for us over Christmas. I will write about it when we get back. We are going to be in three different modes of transportation and covering a lot of territory. We are rolling a lot into a week, and I pray that this time will be so special and precious to my little family. Kathy Kistner wrote a letter talking about the best Christmas gifts, and I want us to say one of our best was the one we all spent together. Our family is not like anyone else's. Every family has their unique qualities, and I would gladly trade some of ours; but who am I to know what God has for us. And I may not see it in this lifetime, so I will continue to trust (this being a daily decision). Nichole Nordeman has a song that says: "If I had the chance, to go back again, take a different road, bear a lighter load, tell an easy story. I would walk away with my yesterdays and I would not trade what is broken for beauty only." (Sunrise) She goes on to say she would not know the morning if she did not know midnight.
I have a whole book in my head about the waiting room and waiting and being on edge. And one day I will write it down. It's stuck right now. But God has told me over and over and over again to live - not just sit. And live while I am waiting. It's amazing how many songs have come out in the last two years about waiting on God. And Reverend Thrasher sent me something about learning to dance in the rain. I am learning and try to read more. When my Bible is open, I am so thirsty. It's my responsibility to get it open more often - and I have. The closer I am to Him - the farther away the hurts and circumstances feel. It's amazing.
I will write more soon. I want to say Merry Christmas to each one who reads this. Christmas is a time to celebrate the birth of the Savior of the world. He came for each one of us, and He loves each one. If you do not know Him, please meet Him right now. He died for each one of us - not as just a collective group. So He knows you and loves you and wants you to have eternal life. It's all free. You just have to believe who He is (the Son of God) and that He died on the cross to save us from sins (that we cannot save ourselves from) and accept the gift of salvation that He freely offers. And then your life will change.
Merry Christmas! If you have not been in touch for a while, we would love to hear from you and see how you are! We love and appreciate our dear friends and family!
Love,
Wendi
As I reflect on this past year, I see clearly how thankful I should be and am. We have come so far since last fall. And though I am still relieved when I wake up each morning to find each child is fine, I know it can get much better than this if I let it (let God).
A couple of weeks ago, I left early in the morning to meet "the girls" for a Christmas shopping trip. I listened to my music and then started talking to God. I can just talk out loud in the car. And I cried...and cried...and cried. So much for the carefully applied tiny bit of eye make-up! It was Katelyn's birthday, and she would be 19. I always get emotional - each of those 19 years - remembering that precious little bundle. And I always want to be closer to God and pull myself back to Him when I take the time to think of her and the impact on my life. She is one the top ten in my whole life for sure! So I cried and talked and sang and felt a "good" worn out by the time I got there. I gave Whitney a gift to celebrate and remember the special day. I know Dwayne especially loved the Snoopy stuff in the bag and the "Away in a Manger" Christmas plate, because they just don't have enough things like that at their house! It was a special day to spend with my sister and other special people. We don't even have to talk about Katelyn - we all know what we felt and what we remember. And we are all better for knowing her.
As we approach December 22 (too quickly - date AND year!), I flash back for the last 17 years since I first became a mom. Andrew was such a good baby. He was gentle and quiet, and everyone loved him. He was well behaved and easy to get along with. He has grown and endured so much in his years. We are so thankful we were chosen to be his parents. He is doing well right now - and we are looking forward to him growing and getting where he needs to be. He has a doctor's appointment next week, and then we will probably go to see an immunologist after the first of the year. This is something the pulmonologist has recommended after reviewing Andrew's unbelievably long chart. He has been studying in the library about auto-immune issues! He called and talked to me day before yesterday. So we will continue to try to take care of Andrew's things as they come and try to be a little ahead of things. I just have to keep remembering that God is right with Andrew and loves him even more than we do. I cannot even begin to explain emotions I have had dealing with Andrew. I have been frustrated, sad, scared...But he is moving right along. As he gets older, I appreciate this about him even more.
Peter and Will continue to help a lot with Sam - and Andrew does also. They help me so much on snow days ~ and we have already had a week of "run throughs" this week. Peter makes me cookies and chocolate milk and loves to tease with me a little bit. He is like he has been his whole life - easy to get along with and good about including most others. He has hair that women spend millions to get each year. He is really growing in a lot of ways - and I am excited to see what he does the next couple of years.
Will is either hunting, building, working, or bothering one neighbor or another. He would be my choice of my luxury item if I ever go on Survivor. He is very matter of fact and innovative like his daddy. He still checks Sam's blood sugar each day before lunch and gives me lots of peace of mind that he is at the same school. I don't know what I will do without him there next year! He is running some, and we are tickled but not pushing him to run at all. I would love to see what he could do with some training. He is one tough child.
Sam is doing well. He also goes to the doctor on Tuesday ~ if we can get out of town to get to Charlotte with this snow storm coming! We are anxious to see what his average blood sugar has been. He has just had to increase one insulin - which is hopefully because he is growing. He is getting much taller and has the same long legs as his daddy. But he is so skinny still! When he gets a little more meat on him, it will be much easier to give shots. But he is very tolerant and learning more about taking care of himself every day. He loves kindergarten but does better with a smaller group. He is much like Andrew at school but has a lot of the same Peter and Will traits too! They love him so much - we all do!
Pete is in Housing Operations at Appalachian still. I have been gone from Admissions for a year now - but some people are just now noticing! I love my job at the pediatrics' office and love the flexibility, very low stress, and part-time hours. It has been so good for all of us.
Pete continues to work on our house. We have one more bathroom to renovate and one to finish. He has taken a break to work on outside projects. This house should keep him busy for a while which is a good thing. It was so hard to leave our new house when we did - after working on it for three years. And it seemed to be harder later. I have worked through all of that, but I know what it is to let go of material things on this earth. "Less is more" is my brother's motto, and I have taken that on in a lot of ways too. I have been getting rid of "things" for a year now - and it feels so good! I feel the need to simplify my life so I can focus on what is most important. I am reading Dave Ramsey's book - finally. I found it at the $5 bookstore for $8.99. I love to hear him on the radio, and Mike Grigsby has told me about him for years. I think this year will have a lot less financial stress, and I am looking forward to that!
Pete has planned an extra special vacation for us over Christmas. I will write about it when we get back. We are going to be in three different modes of transportation and covering a lot of territory. We are rolling a lot into a week, and I pray that this time will be so special and precious to my little family. Kathy Kistner wrote a letter talking about the best Christmas gifts, and I want us to say one of our best was the one we all spent together. Our family is not like anyone else's. Every family has their unique qualities, and I would gladly trade some of ours; but who am I to know what God has for us. And I may not see it in this lifetime, so I will continue to trust (this being a daily decision). Nichole Nordeman has a song that says: "If I had the chance, to go back again, take a different road, bear a lighter load, tell an easy story. I would walk away with my yesterdays and I would not trade what is broken for beauty only." (Sunrise) She goes on to say she would not know the morning if she did not know midnight.
I have a whole book in my head about the waiting room and waiting and being on edge. And one day I will write it down. It's stuck right now. But God has told me over and over and over again to live - not just sit. And live while I am waiting. It's amazing how many songs have come out in the last two years about waiting on God. And Reverend Thrasher sent me something about learning to dance in the rain. I am learning and try to read more. When my Bible is open, I am so thirsty. It's my responsibility to get it open more often - and I have. The closer I am to Him - the farther away the hurts and circumstances feel. It's amazing.
I will write more soon. I want to say Merry Christmas to each one who reads this. Christmas is a time to celebrate the birth of the Savior of the world. He came for each one of us, and He loves each one. If you do not know Him, please meet Him right now. He died for each one of us - not as just a collective group. So He knows you and loves you and wants you to have eternal life. It's all free. You just have to believe who He is (the Son of God) and that He died on the cross to save us from sins (that we cannot save ourselves from) and accept the gift of salvation that He freely offers. And then your life will change.
Merry Christmas! If you have not been in touch for a while, we would love to hear from you and see how you are! We love and appreciate our dear friends and family!
Love,
Wendi
Friday, December 3, 2010
Andrew and Sam! And Peter and Will too!
Andrew and Peter ran in the Foot Locker race in Charlotte last weekend. They did not run their best times, but they did not run bad times. Peter's name keeps popping up in different publications and on different lists. It would be so nice to see Andrew's too, but I told him we would get him all better so he could run the races he trains for this spring and next fall! He is happy for Peter and only wishes to do his best.
Pete picked up a hat that a runner in the state meet threw. It ended up being a hat with a great deal of sentimental value. I mailed it back to him - his name and school were on the tag inside. This week I received a thank you note from his mom - and a note written inside from him. It made my week - not because I thought we had done something good and had been acknowledged. It made me feel good that we did something very simple, and they felt so appreciative that they took the time to write a note. We just don't treat each other that way much anymore. Some of us mean to write notes (ME!!!), but we don't do what we think about and wish we would do. I used to be so good at notes and thank you's of all kinds, but I have not for a few years. So that is a goal of mine for this year. Send those notes and cards and thank you's right when I think of them!
Andrew and Sam go back to the endocrinologist on December 14th. We are hoping and praying Sam's numbers are MUCH improved, and they should be. He pops up every now and then, but he has had much lower numbers overall. I still wake up and need to make sure he is okay. I pray for him every night that his sugar will remain even and not go too low when we are all asleep. I must admit I let it bother me. I do pray. I know, though, that I still worry a lot. It is better with Andrew. He has had such a long stretch with no seizures. For that, we are so so thankful. We just wish he would have a huge growth spurt. At this point, I do not care what any specialist says. I just want him to grow - even if it takes more years rather than months.
Will is into hunting right now. That is part of the reason they are in Virginia. They extended deer season where Pop and Sarah live. I hope he gets one. He has spent a lot of time waiting! Last weekend he went hunting with Pete, some friends, and the ASU quarterback! Deandre had gotten a deer on his first day of hunting. Brad should go into business with new hunters. He helps them get that first deer!
Happy Weekend! Happy Snow! More later...
This is where my "Christmas letter" will be published. I will write it very soon!
Pete picked up a hat that a runner in the state meet threw. It ended up being a hat with a great deal of sentimental value. I mailed it back to him - his name and school were on the tag inside. This week I received a thank you note from his mom - and a note written inside from him. It made my week - not because I thought we had done something good and had been acknowledged. It made me feel good that we did something very simple, and they felt so appreciative that they took the time to write a note. We just don't treat each other that way much anymore. Some of us mean to write notes (ME!!!), but we don't do what we think about and wish we would do. I used to be so good at notes and thank you's of all kinds, but I have not for a few years. So that is a goal of mine for this year. Send those notes and cards and thank you's right when I think of them!
Andrew and Sam go back to the endocrinologist on December 14th. We are hoping and praying Sam's numbers are MUCH improved, and they should be. He pops up every now and then, but he has had much lower numbers overall. I still wake up and need to make sure he is okay. I pray for him every night that his sugar will remain even and not go too low when we are all asleep. I must admit I let it bother me. I do pray. I know, though, that I still worry a lot. It is better with Andrew. He has had such a long stretch with no seizures. For that, we are so so thankful. We just wish he would have a huge growth spurt. At this point, I do not care what any specialist says. I just want him to grow - even if it takes more years rather than months.
Will is into hunting right now. That is part of the reason they are in Virginia. They extended deer season where Pop and Sarah live. I hope he gets one. He has spent a lot of time waiting! Last weekend he went hunting with Pete, some friends, and the ASU quarterback! Deandre had gotten a deer on his first day of hunting. Brad should go into business with new hunters. He helps them get that first deer!
Happy Weekend! Happy Snow! More later...
This is where my "Christmas letter" will be published. I will write it very soon!
Home Alone!!!!
I have always needed some time to myself! Right now it's in the school pick up line reading a book! I get to spend time doing what I want at home - but rarely alone! I love my family, and I always miss them when we are not together; but a few hours alone can do wonders for me! Not only do I have a few hours, but I have almost two days! They are in Virginia hunting and visiting, and I am home frantically cleaning and getting ready for Christmas so we can enjoy the rest of the month at a slower pace! I am also cleaning where Pete cleans twice a week, so that will be a good little work out! I have stocked up on some of my favorite foods, my favorite music, and I have a favorite movie on hand...just in case I get snowed in! The green van has almost 197,000 miles on it and could use new tires! It is getting them on Tuesday, but I will not be driving that car in the snow. I wouldn't drive any car in the snow unless I had to. The Volvo was like a tank in the snow, but my Honda van did very well last year. I had to drive in at least 3-4 blizzards! That was more than the rest of my life put together! We are trying so save for Pete's next vehicle - hopefully a 4WD truck!
My list has gotten shorter - the one that tells what I hope to get done in these two days. Right now I have the washer and dryer both going. The dishwasher about to be started. The firewood is coming upstairs for a nice fire in the woodstove after I get back from cleaning tonight. The Christmas cards are looking at me. A couple of unwrapped gifts keep grabbing my attention! The new curtain rod is waiting for those wonderful Waverly blue gingham curtains I have had for months to hang! I am so excited to get some of these things done!
However...I would pass it up for a hug from those soft, little warm arms and an "I Wuv You Mommy!" And Will running in and out with his camo and boots on. And Andrew and Peter constantly eating and on the computer "doing homework" and watching movies! But they will be back soon! And hopefully they will come home to a cleaner house, decorated for Christmas, and, most importantly, a mommy who feels like she is not so far behind.
We are getting ready early this year. Pete has an extra special trip planned - paid for way back in the spring. Some stuff is ready to be packed for a warmer climate than our Christmas last year - in the ice storm. Gifts and cards need to be mailed early. Some gifts are already at their destination in Virginia. Most gifts are wrapped or bagged! This weekend is about cleaning and wrapping up (literally!) loose ends! And then I can sit and drink hot chocolate and watch Christmas movies with my boys (all FIVE of them!) without feeling pulled to do something else!
Off to put the deer jerkey stained food dehydrator shelves in the dishwasher! Have a great weekend!
My list has gotten shorter - the one that tells what I hope to get done in these two days. Right now I have the washer and dryer both going. The dishwasher about to be started. The firewood is coming upstairs for a nice fire in the woodstove after I get back from cleaning tonight. The Christmas cards are looking at me. A couple of unwrapped gifts keep grabbing my attention! The new curtain rod is waiting for those wonderful Waverly blue gingham curtains I have had for months to hang! I am so excited to get some of these things done!
However...I would pass it up for a hug from those soft, little warm arms and an "I Wuv You Mommy!" And Will running in and out with his camo and boots on. And Andrew and Peter constantly eating and on the computer "doing homework" and watching movies! But they will be back soon! And hopefully they will come home to a cleaner house, decorated for Christmas, and, most importantly, a mommy who feels like she is not so far behind.
We are getting ready early this year. Pete has an extra special trip planned - paid for way back in the spring. Some stuff is ready to be packed for a warmer climate than our Christmas last year - in the ice storm. Gifts and cards need to be mailed early. Some gifts are already at their destination in Virginia. Most gifts are wrapped or bagged! This weekend is about cleaning and wrapping up (literally!) loose ends! And then I can sit and drink hot chocolate and watch Christmas movies with my boys (all FIVE of them!) without feeling pulled to do something else!
Off to put the deer jerkey stained food dehydrator shelves in the dishwasher! Have a great weekend!
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving! Sam wanted it to be today. He wanted me to call Aunt Whitney and have her go ahead and get the food ready! He has talked about how Indians helped the Pilgrims and is trying to fit the whole Tweetsie scenario into what he has been learning at school! I have always told him there were good cowboys and bad cowboys as well as good Indians and bad Indians. At least he has a more realistic view now that he has studied things more!
Sam looks cute with his new haircut. He looks a little like Kate on Kate Plus Eight! He cut his hair in the back all of the way up to his crown! He cut quite a bit, but it won't be more noticeable until it grows a little bit!
Andrew and Peter are running the Foot Locker race in Charlotte this weekend! Peter ran a PR in the Two Mile Tune-up in Charlotte on Saturday - a 9:51. Andrew did not go. Hoping both have a great race! They have worked so hard, and it will be good to end cross country on a high note!
We had three boys get flu vaccines today. We waited for Peter's race to be over. But we could not take a chance with Andrew and Sam. Will sniffed his - he wimped out! We do NOT want to see the flu in this family again this year!
Happy Thanksgiving! This is such a special time to count blessings and thank God for His goodness and what He has done for us! Everything may not be perfect, but do we expect it to be in this world? I am thanking Him and praising Him because of Who He is!
Sam looks cute with his new haircut. He looks a little like Kate on Kate Plus Eight! He cut his hair in the back all of the way up to his crown! He cut quite a bit, but it won't be more noticeable until it grows a little bit!
Andrew and Peter are running the Foot Locker race in Charlotte this weekend! Peter ran a PR in the Two Mile Tune-up in Charlotte on Saturday - a 9:51. Andrew did not go. Hoping both have a great race! They have worked so hard, and it will be good to end cross country on a high note!
We had three boys get flu vaccines today. We waited for Peter's race to be over. But we could not take a chance with Andrew and Sam. Will sniffed his - he wimped out! We do NOT want to see the flu in this family again this year!
Happy Thanksgiving! This is such a special time to count blessings and thank God for His goodness and what He has done for us! Everything may not be perfect, but do we expect it to be in this world? I am thanking Him and praising Him because of Who He is!
Friday, November 19, 2010
Happy 19th Birthday to precious little Katelyn
I can remember it like it was just last week. I arrived at Forsyth Hospital in Winston where my sister was in labor with her first baby. She had found out about a month before that the baby was not growing and developing. We knew some of what could be, but we did not know much. I found her watching Little House on the Prairie while nurses hovered nearby and lots of doctors were readying to attend the birth. Because Katelyn was my sister's first baby, they really wanted to do everything they could for her and my sister. My dad would check on Whitney periodically, but he would turn a greenish color and have to leave. My aunt was begging my uncle for a cigarette, but he kept reminding her calmly that she had stopped smoking. I remember arriving, checking on Whitney and Dwayne, going to the Hanes Mall to eat (and not even being tempted to shop!) while we waited...and waited.
Then I fast forward to sitting in the hall straight up against a cinder block wall. Katelyn was there, and Whitney was fine. The doctors did not think that tiny baby would make it through the night. One of her pediatricians had mercy on Russell and me and invited us to say hi to Katelyn before they took her to Baptist just a little bit away. She was as long as a newborn because she was term, but she weighed less than three pounds. I remember yellow. Her hair or her skin. And I remember loving her with everything I had. And I remember how my arms ached so badly to hold her. Now I can grab one of the other children to hold when I feel that ache, but then there was no baby to hold. And we could not hold her. I am sure Russell and I prayed for her and over her. And that was one of the only times I was within an arm's length in her whole five weeks.
In the NICU, there are very strict rules with very good reason. Still, I drove to Stuart, VA, every weekend to spend time with Whitney and go with her to the hospital even though it meant sitting on the outside. I got a couple of glimpses, and Dwayne took some pictures. No digital cameras back then! And there is a video. I ached to hold this baby, see her, and get to know her. And somehow through the wall, I was able to do just that - get to know her through pieces of information and pictures.
She was supposed to have only part of a kidney. She had more than they thought. She scooted in her tiny bassinet. She scrunched her face and tried to hide from Santa Claus visiting the sick babies. In her little life, she did have personality and fight and determination. And oh was she loved.
My grandparents arrived one day to see her. My grandmother announced to my grandfather that she was going to see the baby - whether he took her or not. They totaled their very large (enormous really) Cadillac on the way to see her - in Cana, VA. It was a multi-car accident where one car stopped suddenly and several cars bumped into the back of each other. My grandparents had to rent a car half the size of theirs and continue on the trip. They got to go in and see her - because they were great grandparents and not just aunts. My grandmother came out and said of my sister, "Well, she has herself a real live baby doll." That meant so much to my sister.
Whitney and I would stop at Little Caesar's in Winston to treat ourselves to Crazy Bread before returning to their home way out in the country. Dwayne worked the night shift a lot, so Whitney appreciated the time I could come. While I was there one weekend with another friend, one of their two dogs came back shot. The other never returned. We searched all over the area where they lived and realized that no one cared if they shot someone else's dog - especially someone with a dying baby. It was a bleak, sad time. I was in charge of cleaning the bathroom when I was there. I put myself in that job. I cleaned that tub so much it's a wonder the finish did not come off. It's hard to know what to do with the energy and feelings and aches sometimes.
Dwayne and Whitney came to Bristol on Christmas Eve in 1991, intending to spend a little time with family and return to the hospital and Katelyn on Christmas Day. I remember the phone ringing in the wee hours of the morning. It was the hospital - no cell phones back then. They cared enough to know where to find them. Dwayne and Whitney rushed to Baptist. By the time we got there a little later, Katelyn was gone. I still remember every Christmas how that felt. Again, I can grab a child now and hold him or her; and for that, I am so thankful. I try to go and visit her grave on Christmas Eve so I can tell her I love her - even though I know she is not there. It's just a quiet place for reflection and to thank God for what He has given our family and blessed us with.
That time was a hard time in my life too. I took time off from my life the next few months and returned to school to start on a second degree. Thankfully, God worked out my own situation; and I returned to North Carolina and my own life that had seemed suspended for a few months. I remember people being so kind and helpful and thoughtful and supportive. And I still remember times of being so hurt by something someone said that I did not feel I could stand it. Sometimes I remember to keep my mouth closed. I would not want to cause that same pain and confusion for someone else. I appreciate those who quietly prayed for all of us and were there when we needed them - not just pretending to care but allowing God to use them to minister to and sustain our family.
I know one of God's tiniest angels. She slipped into our lives one cold night not meant to stay for long. And when it was time to go, she slipped out again. But she left us with something so hard to explain. In her short little life, she made such a huge impact. I cannot wait to see her again and hold her. I don't know what she will look like in Heaven, and I don't have to know. I just know I will see her, and I will know who she is!
Happy 19th Birthday to Katelyn Elizabeth Ball. Thank you for affecting my life in such a wonderful and loving way - even though it is not empty of hurt and pain. I love you so much, and I am so happy to know you are with the One Who loves us the most.
Then I fast forward to sitting in the hall straight up against a cinder block wall. Katelyn was there, and Whitney was fine. The doctors did not think that tiny baby would make it through the night. One of her pediatricians had mercy on Russell and me and invited us to say hi to Katelyn before they took her to Baptist just a little bit away. She was as long as a newborn because she was term, but she weighed less than three pounds. I remember yellow. Her hair or her skin. And I remember loving her with everything I had. And I remember how my arms ached so badly to hold her. Now I can grab one of the other children to hold when I feel that ache, but then there was no baby to hold. And we could not hold her. I am sure Russell and I prayed for her and over her. And that was one of the only times I was within an arm's length in her whole five weeks.
In the NICU, there are very strict rules with very good reason. Still, I drove to Stuart, VA, every weekend to spend time with Whitney and go with her to the hospital even though it meant sitting on the outside. I got a couple of glimpses, and Dwayne took some pictures. No digital cameras back then! And there is a video. I ached to hold this baby, see her, and get to know her. And somehow through the wall, I was able to do just that - get to know her through pieces of information and pictures.
She was supposed to have only part of a kidney. She had more than they thought. She scooted in her tiny bassinet. She scrunched her face and tried to hide from Santa Claus visiting the sick babies. In her little life, she did have personality and fight and determination. And oh was she loved.
My grandparents arrived one day to see her. My grandmother announced to my grandfather that she was going to see the baby - whether he took her or not. They totaled their very large (enormous really) Cadillac on the way to see her - in Cana, VA. It was a multi-car accident where one car stopped suddenly and several cars bumped into the back of each other. My grandparents had to rent a car half the size of theirs and continue on the trip. They got to go in and see her - because they were great grandparents and not just aunts. My grandmother came out and said of my sister, "Well, she has herself a real live baby doll." That meant so much to my sister.
Whitney and I would stop at Little Caesar's in Winston to treat ourselves to Crazy Bread before returning to their home way out in the country. Dwayne worked the night shift a lot, so Whitney appreciated the time I could come. While I was there one weekend with another friend, one of their two dogs came back shot. The other never returned. We searched all over the area where they lived and realized that no one cared if they shot someone else's dog - especially someone with a dying baby. It was a bleak, sad time. I was in charge of cleaning the bathroom when I was there. I put myself in that job. I cleaned that tub so much it's a wonder the finish did not come off. It's hard to know what to do with the energy and feelings and aches sometimes.
Dwayne and Whitney came to Bristol on Christmas Eve in 1991, intending to spend a little time with family and return to the hospital and Katelyn on Christmas Day. I remember the phone ringing in the wee hours of the morning. It was the hospital - no cell phones back then. They cared enough to know where to find them. Dwayne and Whitney rushed to Baptist. By the time we got there a little later, Katelyn was gone. I still remember every Christmas how that felt. Again, I can grab a child now and hold him or her; and for that, I am so thankful. I try to go and visit her grave on Christmas Eve so I can tell her I love her - even though I know she is not there. It's just a quiet place for reflection and to thank God for what He has given our family and blessed us with.
That time was a hard time in my life too. I took time off from my life the next few months and returned to school to start on a second degree. Thankfully, God worked out my own situation; and I returned to North Carolina and my own life that had seemed suspended for a few months. I remember people being so kind and helpful and thoughtful and supportive. And I still remember times of being so hurt by something someone said that I did not feel I could stand it. Sometimes I remember to keep my mouth closed. I would not want to cause that same pain and confusion for someone else. I appreciate those who quietly prayed for all of us and were there when we needed them - not just pretending to care but allowing God to use them to minister to and sustain our family.
I know one of God's tiniest angels. She slipped into our lives one cold night not meant to stay for long. And when it was time to go, she slipped out again. But she left us with something so hard to explain. In her short little life, she made such a huge impact. I cannot wait to see her again and hold her. I don't know what she will look like in Heaven, and I don't have to know. I just know I will see her, and I will know who she is!
Happy 19th Birthday to Katelyn Elizabeth Ball. Thank you for affecting my life in such a wonderful and loving way - even though it is not empty of hurt and pain. I love you so much, and I am so happy to know you are with the One Who loves us the most.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
A Great Meet!
The boys ran in the 4A North Carolina State Meet in Kernersville on Saturday. Peter was 17th and the first sophomore to come in. Andrew was in 70th but seemed satisfied with his race. My last email talked about how he seemed good, but I was not. I will cut and paste it here.
Sam gave himself a haircut on Sunday. You cannot tell until you look at the back of his hair, and there is quite a bit sticking straight up! It is funny, and it will probably look funnier as it grows out. But it's just hair, but I admit I am thankful he did not cut the front! He told me Peter did it! So we had to talk about telling the truth...again. Peter gets blamed for a lot!
Here is my last email update. I plan to move to updates on this blog and not send out as many emails! Everyone is so busy, and I don't want to clog up their inboxes!!!!
Sent on Tuesday, November 9, 2010 (the day before Lisa's birthday!!!!)
Sam gave himself a haircut on Sunday. You cannot tell until you look at the back of his hair, and there is quite a bit sticking straight up! It is funny, and it will probably look funnier as it grows out. But it's just hair, but I admit I am thankful he did not cut the front! He told me Peter did it! So we had to talk about telling the truth...again. Peter gets blamed for a lot!
Here is my last email update. I plan to move to updates on this blog and not send out as many emails! Everyone is so busy, and I don't want to clog up their inboxes!!!!
Sent on Tuesday, November 9, 2010 (the day before Lisa's birthday!!!!)
The state meet went well on Saturday. I am sorry I am just now sending this! Pete just went out of town for the week, and we have been busy since we got back! It snowed a little, but it was not enough to hinder travel. And it was cold down in Kernersville!!!! That was a little advantage for the Boone runners who have already had a taste of cold weather.
The boys finished 8th overall - better than expected. Peter was the first sophomore in the 4A race and was 17th. We had one in the top 10 and another in the 30's (I think). Andrew struggled a little bit but held his own and was 70th. I struggle myself - wishing he could be up there where his hard work would reward him more. But he seemed happy with his race, and so who am I to not be? I told Dr. Adams (our pediatrician) that I heard his voice over the weekend when I thought about Andrew. I heard him saying something like, "He can run." Yes, that is enough. Dr. Adams was talking to a visiting doctor a few months ago and proceeded to tell him about Andrew's history - chronologically. First of all, I was amazed at how much he remembered in order, and then I realized that Andrew is so blessed to go through what he has and be doing what he is doing. He is special (as one teacher constantly reminds me), and all of these things are for some reason. I want more for him because I know what he puts into everything - his running, his studies, his life. But that is when my focus is not on what God has for him. Nothing surprises God, and I know one prayer I prayed when Andrew was little - to show me when I needed to get something checked out for him - has been answered over and over again. It is amazing to know why he went to certain places and who all played a part in getting him where he needed to be. All of these things came together because God orchestrated them. I certainly did not!
I have also struggled with some other concerns with the other boys. Sam's stuff may seem obvious, but it's not. But you know, I talked to just the right person who has helped me with one particular concern so much over the past couple of weeks. And I feel so much better about it. And some of the other concerns I have had have been better the last day or so. God has truly shown me in way that not even I could miss that He is right here with us. I have been there when I don't see any change or light for quite a while, so I am extra thankful when I don't have to wait too long or any longer than I have to see that light! My older boys were all so small at the same time, and now they are all teenagers. I feel like I need to be right where they need me, and God has allowed a way for me to be with them much more than even a year ago!
Thanks for the prayers for our boys. It's an amazing feeling to know that so many people care and pray. Andrew goes to the neurologist Monday, and we are beyond happy and relieved that he has not had a seizure at all in many many months. He does take a lot of medicine still, but he always has and it did not work as well. His breathing is great, and his foot is not bothering him at all right now!
Our regular cross country season is over, but the boys are still training for Foot Locker (or for those older like me, the Kinney Meet!). Pete and I both ran that course. We were talking about it the other day on the way to the state meet. I will never forget riding in the back of Coach Smith's Vega station wagon (the very back) with all of the luggage while three boys sat in the back, and Whitney and Arlene shared the front passenger seat! Those were the days!!!! We were there to see some of the best runners there ever were - and still hold records. I am so happy our boys are making such great memories - and some of them in the very same places!
We were also able to see some of Pete's Appalachian teammates we have not seen in many years. It was so great to see them!
Thanks again! If you want to check out our blog periodically, it's sixvandenbergs.blogspot.com.
Love,
Wendi
Psalm 92 (If you have a Max Lucado version, read the quote from A.W. Tozer about how God is sufficient!)
Monday, November 1, 2010
Wow! Snow is in the forecast!
I am not ready for snow! I have things to do - get my car ready, stock the pantry (which I do every few days anyway), clean more in the basement, clean up the yard, etc. But it will come when it comes! We have a basement full of wood and a great wood stove, so that is a blessing!
The boys have been busy. Will continues to help Sam A LOT at school which helps me EVEN MORE! Will was third in the 8th grade boys' cross country race. We were very proud of him!
Andrew and Peter are on their way to the state meet Saturday. They worked so hard for this. Andrew has overcome his breathing problems, sickness, and most recently a possibly fractured foot from someone stepping on him in a race! We are proud of him running his best and hardest. Peter broke 16 minutes and ran a 15:58 on the McAlpine course. He is so excited. And Andrew is excited for him too!
My goal is to post more on this blog and send fewer emails. Everyone is so busy that I want to make my emails fewer - especially since there are so many on the list. It is hard to get so many! I will do better keeping up with this blog. I may even add pictures!
Happy "Possible" Snow Week! Ready or not!!!!!
The boys have been busy. Will continues to help Sam A LOT at school which helps me EVEN MORE! Will was third in the 8th grade boys' cross country race. We were very proud of him!
Andrew and Peter are on their way to the state meet Saturday. They worked so hard for this. Andrew has overcome his breathing problems, sickness, and most recently a possibly fractured foot from someone stepping on him in a race! We are proud of him running his best and hardest. Peter broke 16 minutes and ran a 15:58 on the McAlpine course. He is so excited. And Andrew is excited for him too!
My goal is to post more on this blog and send fewer emails. Everyone is so busy that I want to make my emails fewer - especially since there are so many on the list. It is hard to get so many! I will do better keeping up with this blog. I may even add pictures!
Happy "Possible" Snow Week! Ready or not!!!!!
Saturday, September 18, 2010
It feels like fall!
The weather is so cool (sometimes cold!) in the mornings and warms up by the afternoon - sometimes a little too warm! It's just a reminder that fall is coming soon, and we are excited. There are lots of rumors and some speculation about the kind of winter we will have following such a big winter last year and such a hot summer. So my boys have gotten the basement corner full of firewood and have a lot outside too. Last year, Pete and I were outside on Valentine's Day getting more firewood from the yard. He told me it was next year's firewood we were using! I said I was thankful we had it and had all summer to get more!
The boys are doing okay. Sam's numbers have improved since his Tuesday visit. We have a new Lantus pen, and maybe that has something to do with it! We had raised his amount last week, so that is probably helping a lot.
Andrew is still having a time and cannot run. He said he felt a little better yesterday. We are trying to get him to eat (at less than 104 now), rest, and get his lungs clear. He has an inhaler used for COPD, and it seems to be finally making a difference. His lungs are great, but they are sick. The only reason he could run was because he could skim from the top, but that is not good for him at all. I did not call the pulmonologist back yesterday and did not hear from the labs. But I will call Monday and see if we are still on the right track.
Will was sick Thursday with a bug. Even though he is 13, I still don't like leaving them alone when they are throwing up in case they pass out or fall over. So I ran back and forth from home to school to work to home to work to school all morning. He was okay after some good rest in a chilly room with lots of covers - mine!
Peter is running more and more. We are hoping he will have a great meet this week and just carry it on through until the end of the season. Cross country requires a lot of self discipline and practice on your own for months before the meets. It is hard to see them put in so much work and then not see the benefits sometimes. But we will keep praying for them to be healthy and be able to run and be a part of the team.
Have a great weekend!
The boys are doing okay. Sam's numbers have improved since his Tuesday visit. We have a new Lantus pen, and maybe that has something to do with it! We had raised his amount last week, so that is probably helping a lot.
Andrew is still having a time and cannot run. He said he felt a little better yesterday. We are trying to get him to eat (at less than 104 now), rest, and get his lungs clear. He has an inhaler used for COPD, and it seems to be finally making a difference. His lungs are great, but they are sick. The only reason he could run was because he could skim from the top, but that is not good for him at all. I did not call the pulmonologist back yesterday and did not hear from the labs. But I will call Monday and see if we are still on the right track.
Will was sick Thursday with a bug. Even though he is 13, I still don't like leaving them alone when they are throwing up in case they pass out or fall over. So I ran back and forth from home to school to work to home to work to school all morning. He was okay after some good rest in a chilly room with lots of covers - mine!
Peter is running more and more. We are hoping he will have a great meet this week and just carry it on through until the end of the season. Cross country requires a lot of self discipline and practice on your own for months before the meets. It is hard to see them put in so much work and then not see the benefits sometimes. But we will keep praying for them to be healthy and be able to run and be a part of the team.
Have a great weekend!
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Quick update!
The boys are in full swing at school! Sam continues to like kindergarten more and more. Will likes 8th grade and all of his male teachers. Andrew and Peter are enjoying the new high school.
We have had three cross country meets. Peter should run his first meet next week. His leg is feeling stronger and better. Andrew has done well. They both seem a little sick, so they are trying to go to bed earlier. It is so cool in the mornings and SO hot in the afternoons. That may have something to do with it!
Andrew's pathology reports came back okay for his biopsies. One had suspicious cells, so I will take him back in October to get a good going over. The other biopsy was fine. He does not have to have anything done to the one that has the bad cells - the borders were clear. So we are thankful for that!
Sam is doing okay. He and Andrew go back to the endocrinologist this month. Sam tends to run higher than lower, and I am finding more and more people who say it is his age. It is still worrisome, and some things make NO sense at all. He is getting two shots in the morning before 8:00 a.m.! Don't ask why I started checking this so diligently - maybe because I knew I was leaving him for a while. His teachers have been great - but we have had no meetings about him and his care yet. So I am extra thankful that Will is there to check him and for any emergencies that might come up. Sam is working at checking his own bsl and getting all of his "stuff" ready in case he has to sometime!
Have a great rest of the week!
We have had three cross country meets. Peter should run his first meet next week. His leg is feeling stronger and better. Andrew has done well. They both seem a little sick, so they are trying to go to bed earlier. It is so cool in the mornings and SO hot in the afternoons. That may have something to do with it!
Andrew's pathology reports came back okay for his biopsies. One had suspicious cells, so I will take him back in October to get a good going over. The other biopsy was fine. He does not have to have anything done to the one that has the bad cells - the borders were clear. So we are thankful for that!
Sam is doing okay. He and Andrew go back to the endocrinologist this month. Sam tends to run higher than lower, and I am finding more and more people who say it is his age. It is still worrisome, and some things make NO sense at all. He is getting two shots in the morning before 8:00 a.m.! Don't ask why I started checking this so diligently - maybe because I knew I was leaving him for a while. His teachers have been great - but we have had no meetings about him and his care yet. So I am extra thankful that Will is there to check him and for any emergencies that might come up. Sam is working at checking his own bsl and getting all of his "stuff" ready in case he has to sometime!
Have a great rest of the week!
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
School has started!
We had three boys in school today and one at home and work with Mommy! Sam starts kindergarten tomorrow and is nervous! He was so afraid I was going to "drop" him off today!
The boys really enjoyed the high school and were too cold if "too" anything which has always been "hot" but never too cold! The ac must be getting adjusted to having so many students there.
Peter ran today for the first time in over a month. He ran slowly for 30 minutes. He hopes to be running a lot by next week. Our team needs him! Andrew is like a machine. He sets a pace and sticks to it. He is driving more and more. Unfortunately, he has my sense of direction. I am much better, so I know he will be.
Will has all male teachers this year! They hopefully will be able to keep up with him and keep on him!
I am thankful they had a great day. Will, Sam, and I went to Waffle Cone Wednesday to celebrate Will's first day of 8th grade! I will be sad when he leaves HP.
Better go and get some people in bed!
The boys really enjoyed the high school and were too cold if "too" anything which has always been "hot" but never too cold! The ac must be getting adjusted to having so many students there.
Peter ran today for the first time in over a month. He ran slowly for 30 minutes. He hopes to be running a lot by next week. Our team needs him! Andrew is like a machine. He sets a pace and sticks to it. He is driving more and more. Unfortunately, he has my sense of direction. I am much better, so I know he will be.
Will has all male teachers this year! They hopefully will be able to keep up with him and keep on him!
I am thankful they had a great day. Will, Sam, and I went to Waffle Cone Wednesday to celebrate Will's first day of 8th grade! I will be sad when he leaves HP.
Better go and get some people in bed!
Friday, July 30, 2010
Oh no! Another summer week is gone already!
Some weeks I don't know what day it is most days of the week. It is easier to lose track in the summer, but I had better get back on schedule - quickly. After weeks of appointments, VBS, and such, it is hard to find time to go to Tweetsie even! But I have gotten a lot accomplished this summer to prepare for this busy fall!
The new high school was dedicated today. I did not go because we were leaving around lunch time to check on Laura who had surgery on her leg today. She did well and even called me when her mom was in Walgreens getting her pain meds. I ended up getting sick, so Sam and I stayed home. Andrew and Peter went with Pete so Andrew can run in Johnson City in the morning. Andrew and Peter want to stay until Monday when we go swim. Tuesday is Sam's eye doctor appointment, and Wednesday is his kindergarten picnic! Cross country practice begins Monday morning, and I feel like summer is already gone!
I look forward to fall. It's my very favorite season - probably something to do with cross country and Coach Smith. I think I just feel like I need a little more time of an easier schedule before my hours are all taken up each day.
I had better go and check on my little precious person who just told me this week, "Mommy, I don't want to go to kindergarten." We saw Coach Mac at the bike auction last night, and he told Sam he would be glad to see him in two weeks. I told Sam I remember my first day of kindergarten - and I do. My dad always said I had a memory like an elephant. And we ended up with three bikes from the auction. The boys were happy.
Sam is doing better with lots more insulin. He has more of the 24 hour and a smaller ratio (less carbs per unit). I hope we can keep him on a good schedule with school.
Off to wrap some baby gifts...so excited for Casey and Sheldon!
The new high school was dedicated today. I did not go because we were leaving around lunch time to check on Laura who had surgery on her leg today. She did well and even called me when her mom was in Walgreens getting her pain meds. I ended up getting sick, so Sam and I stayed home. Andrew and Peter went with Pete so Andrew can run in Johnson City in the morning. Andrew and Peter want to stay until Monday when we go swim. Tuesday is Sam's eye doctor appointment, and Wednesday is his kindergarten picnic! Cross country practice begins Monday morning, and I feel like summer is already gone!
I look forward to fall. It's my very favorite season - probably something to do with cross country and Coach Smith. I think I just feel like I need a little more time of an easier schedule before my hours are all taken up each day.
I had better go and check on my little precious person who just told me this week, "Mommy, I don't want to go to kindergarten." We saw Coach Mac at the bike auction last night, and he told Sam he would be glad to see him in two weeks. I told Sam I remember my first day of kindergarten - and I do. My dad always said I had a memory like an elephant. And we ended up with three bikes from the auction. The boys were happy.
Sam is doing better with lots more insulin. He has more of the 24 hour and a smaller ratio (less carbs per unit). I hope we can keep him on a good schedule with school.
Off to wrap some baby gifts...so excited for Casey and Sheldon!
Friday, July 23, 2010
"It's Friday...Oh yeah..." Betty Watson
I have a great lady at work who reminds us all that it's Friday! She called me on my vacation! And she called me last Friday when she was on vacation herself! She says it like no one else! And she is delightful - you truly love to see her coming. She is funny, lighthearted, sweet, and dresses for EVERY occasion! I want people to love to see me coming like we love to see her!
This week has been VBS at our church. It was great. But like all VBS weeks, it's hot; and we are tired. So we are glad it is Friday, and we are glad it's been a good week.
Andrew continues to do well. He is running hard and helps a lot with Sam. Peter has been injured but started running this week. Will works as much as he can with our neighbors. And Sam is trying to keep up with everyone. I asked if he wanted to run, and he said "No, but I need to start lifting weights." And he was serious.
He also asked yesterday when it would snow. He said, "I have been waiting and waiting (for snow)." He is too funny sometimes. Watching him play the Wii is hilarious too. He is so serious, but he is seriously good at the games. And he will tell you if he is not!
It's so hot here in Boone! We are ready for some rain and cooler temps. It is not as hot as it is in other places, but it sure is hot for the mountains. I am looking forward to next week - the pool, maybe a trip to Tweetsie, and NO appointments!
Have a great weekend!
This week has been VBS at our church. It was great. But like all VBS weeks, it's hot; and we are tired. So we are glad it is Friday, and we are glad it's been a good week.
Andrew continues to do well. He is running hard and helps a lot with Sam. Peter has been injured but started running this week. Will works as much as he can with our neighbors. And Sam is trying to keep up with everyone. I asked if he wanted to run, and he said "No, but I need to start lifting weights." And he was serious.
He also asked yesterday when it would snow. He said, "I have been waiting and waiting (for snow)." He is too funny sometimes. Watching him play the Wii is hilarious too. He is so serious, but he is seriously good at the games. And he will tell you if he is not!
It's so hot here in Boone! We are ready for some rain and cooler temps. It is not as hot as it is in other places, but it sure is hot for the mountains. I am looking forward to next week - the pool, maybe a trip to Tweetsie, and NO appointments!
Have a great weekend!
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Andrew's Appointments This Week
Andrew got through his three appointments this past week. His neurologist appointment was good. He is doing fine on his medication. He still has what I call "connecting" issues, but I don't know if it's the seizures or the medicine. I have some terms on his referral report that I am googling, but I feel thankful that he is stable - especially after last fall. We have turned in his driving information again and hope that turns out well for him. They usually let you keep your permit if your seizures are few and at night or early morning. He is no where near getting his license because we have not pushed him to drive. So he has some time. My parents did not turn us loose early! They made sure we had plenty of information in our heads before they let us out on our own!
His check up was good. It was like old times with Dr. Adams. We were his last appointment for the day, and he went over a lot of stuff with us pretty quickly. He made me feel better about some of my concerns and is getting Andrew an appointment with the dermatologist. He needs a few things checked out - they can be liver-related, but his liver labs have been fine. We are checking protein levels though - they are consistently low.
His pulmonologist appointment was pretty routine. Andrew does not have the bronchiectasis, so that is great news. He does not have any allergies that they found in routine blood work nor does he have signs of any in the spring. Dr. Black told Andrew that he should not miss out on track because of his breathing problems and wants us to call with any difficulties so they can treat him and stop his problems before they get bad. He really seems to want to help him, and we appreciate that.
We have VBS this week and only dentist appointments. The next week Sam has an eye doctor check up before kindergarten starts. Summer is flying by too fast! But I am glad we are getting all of these appointments out of the way before school and cross country start. Fall is always so busy, but it will be much easier for me this year with my new job. No travel! That will make a huge difference.
We have been working to move furniture and rearrange rooms today - just some basic stuff. Pete has worked hard cleaning - literally cleaning the basement. We have moved lots of boxes down there - well, he has. He organized them and has left them so I can find everything and still go through some. We have gotten rid of so much stuff through our huge yard sale and the trash dump! It feels so wonderful! I will have to get some more of my furniture (like my great grandmother's coffee table) from my parents to finish up some rooms. And then I will need help to finish up my window treatments and hanging my pictures! I am sure I would qualify for one of the HGTV shows! Pete has painted and finished almost all of the new windows. They look so pretty - like a dollhouse. We still have lots to do upstairs - the boys' rooms and finishing the bath, but it is coming along!
Have a great weekend!
His check up was good. It was like old times with Dr. Adams. We were his last appointment for the day, and he went over a lot of stuff with us pretty quickly. He made me feel better about some of my concerns and is getting Andrew an appointment with the dermatologist. He needs a few things checked out - they can be liver-related, but his liver labs have been fine. We are checking protein levels though - they are consistently low.
His pulmonologist appointment was pretty routine. Andrew does not have the bronchiectasis, so that is great news. He does not have any allergies that they found in routine blood work nor does he have signs of any in the spring. Dr. Black told Andrew that he should not miss out on track because of his breathing problems and wants us to call with any difficulties so they can treat him and stop his problems before they get bad. He really seems to want to help him, and we appreciate that.
We have VBS this week and only dentist appointments. The next week Sam has an eye doctor check up before kindergarten starts. Summer is flying by too fast! But I am glad we are getting all of these appointments out of the way before school and cross country start. Fall is always so busy, but it will be much easier for me this year with my new job. No travel! That will make a huge difference.
We have been working to move furniture and rearrange rooms today - just some basic stuff. Pete has worked hard cleaning - literally cleaning the basement. We have moved lots of boxes down there - well, he has. He organized them and has left them so I can find everything and still go through some. We have gotten rid of so much stuff through our huge yard sale and the trash dump! It feels so wonderful! I will have to get some more of my furniture (like my great grandmother's coffee table) from my parents to finish up some rooms. And then I will need help to finish up my window treatments and hanging my pictures! I am sure I would qualify for one of the HGTV shows! Pete has painted and finished almost all of the new windows. They look so pretty - like a dollhouse. We still have lots to do upstairs - the boys' rooms and finishing the bath, but it is coming along!
Have a great weekend!
A peaceful July weekend
The rain is not yet falling. We had a little sprinkle, and we hope to get more! The ground is so dry and reminds me of myself. Slowly, it feels like my soul is getting some hydration - still slowly. I understand more of what it means to wait. I need to work on the "be still" part. But I feel that bubble welling up - the one that reminds me no matter how tough or grueling some things are that the joy of the Lord (which IS my strength) is still there - no matter what!
Peter and Will just got back from a few days with Pop and Sarah. I am sure Pop and Sarah will sleep good tonight. In just a few days, they rode the Virginia Creeper Trail, went to a water slide, shopped at the mall (I wish I could have been there to see that - Peter got a trendy shirt and Will a hatchet!), mowed, and helped Pop with some other chores - for which he paid them. We are so glad to have them back.
Andrew wishes he could have gone, but he had THREE doctor appointments this week. Two were in town, and one in Charlotte. I-77 is no fun when you are trying to keep on schedule. We cannot help that Sam has to eat and/or stop every so often. We were not running way ahead like we usually do for an appointment. But God got us there on time. The Subaru that had followed me too closely on 77 finally popped a huge Cadillac SUV in the back, and we maneuvered around that and kept going. We were only going 5-10 mph at the time, so no one was hurt. But I felt sorry for the people behind them because that would be one more delay. We ate at the mall food court and stopped at the bookstores and headed home. It was not the most fun day -spending most of the day in the car - but it was fun to be together!
This week is VBS, so we will probably have to skip our swim day. I am sorry for that since it rained last week. Pete gets his stitches out this week, and his arm has been fine. Cindy gave me tickets to Tweetsie that she won, so we will try to go there next week. The older boys have outgrown it, but they will love some of the rides still and watching Sam. We appreciate the gift. It's way too expensive to go with four children. Tweetsie holds great memories for me - my grandfather moved over to ride the train with me when I was very little when the Indians ran through. He also bought me a stuffed "Mildred" bear. And I worked there the summer before I was married. Pete and the guys I worked with stayed and talked to me when I was STUCK on the chair lift for a couple of hours. So...many great memories!
The thunder is back. Hopefully it will bring the rain with it! Better go and check Sam's bsl. He was so high yesterday - all day. He started out better today but has not done well. I got one new insulin bottle out and will change the cartridge in the other. This gets tiresome -when we are so off and cannot seem to figure it out. But he seems to feel good and is watching Little Bear and resting right now.
Peter and Will just got back from a few days with Pop and Sarah. I am sure Pop and Sarah will sleep good tonight. In just a few days, they rode the Virginia Creeper Trail, went to a water slide, shopped at the mall (I wish I could have been there to see that - Peter got a trendy shirt and Will a hatchet!), mowed, and helped Pop with some other chores - for which he paid them. We are so glad to have them back.
Andrew wishes he could have gone, but he had THREE doctor appointments this week. Two were in town, and one in Charlotte. I-77 is no fun when you are trying to keep on schedule. We cannot help that Sam has to eat and/or stop every so often. We were not running way ahead like we usually do for an appointment. But God got us there on time. The Subaru that had followed me too closely on 77 finally popped a huge Cadillac SUV in the back, and we maneuvered around that and kept going. We were only going 5-10 mph at the time, so no one was hurt. But I felt sorry for the people behind them because that would be one more delay. We ate at the mall food court and stopped at the bookstores and headed home. It was not the most fun day -spending most of the day in the car - but it was fun to be together!
This week is VBS, so we will probably have to skip our swim day. I am sorry for that since it rained last week. Pete gets his stitches out this week, and his arm has been fine. Cindy gave me tickets to Tweetsie that she won, so we will try to go there next week. The older boys have outgrown it, but they will love some of the rides still and watching Sam. We appreciate the gift. It's way too expensive to go with four children. Tweetsie holds great memories for me - my grandfather moved over to ride the train with me when I was very little when the Indians ran through. He also bought me a stuffed "Mildred" bear. And I worked there the summer before I was married. Pete and the guys I worked with stayed and talked to me when I was STUCK on the chair lift for a couple of hours. So...many great memories!
The thunder is back. Hopefully it will bring the rain with it! Better go and check Sam's bsl. He was so high yesterday - all day. He started out better today but has not done well. I got one new insulin bottle out and will change the cartridge in the other. This gets tiresome -when we are so off and cannot seem to figure it out. But he seems to feel good and is watching Little Bear and resting right now.
Friday, July 9, 2010
THE BEAR 2010
Last night was THE BEAR! The Bear is a hill climb five miles from the bottom of the hill (221) in Linville to the top of Grandfather Mountain. Runners pretty much climb a mile in elevation as they run UP. They have very little flat area and only one little dip. It is tough. It is grueling. It is an accomplishment to finish!
Andrew came up strong - running hard. He passed a guy on the last switchback. He stopped at the top and then realized the finish was pushed back just a little. The guy passed him, but he still was 6th place of about 850 runners with a time below 35 minutes! I was so excited! I was so thankful. Today, as I drove down the 421 mountain, my eyes filled with tears as I thanked God for giving Andrew this great race and great encouragement - which mean so much after almost a year of struggles. He still struggles - he even did some last night - but he can see how it is to overcome with the help of God Who loves him even more than his parents!
We sat in traffic on 105 for a long long time. I was so worried I would not make it up to see him. I knew I would probably get him to the race. We dropped him off and went on up. The first parking lot was full, so they sent us on up to the next which made me very nervous. We were sitting on the mountain in traffic, and it was not fun. I cannot stand that. Then they seemed to be turning us around. By that time, Sam's sugar had not been checked in a while. I was planning on checking him right when we got there. A very nice lady made a way for us to go on up to the very top. It made the night so much easier to get to his snacks, check his bsl, and give him shots. We are thankful for Diana - wherever she is!
We got to see so many people and see so many people fulfill their goals and dreams to finish this race. There is none like it!
When you are on top of Grandfather Mountain, you cannot help but see and feel the majesty of God. The views are beautiful and beyond anything you see anywhere else. The air is different. The thunder rumbled last night and some lightning flashed, but it never rained on us. It cooled a little, and a breeze was blowing. It was such a peaceful night - well, for me. The race organizers were busy working and cleaning up. But you just cannot help but know you are in one of the most special places in the world on top of that mountain. When we relate our good times to being at the top or on the top of the mountain, you can certainly feel where that comes from when you are up there! Such a difference from the bottom to the top. So many places to fall or struggle or fail, but just like those runners pushed through running almost straight up in places, we can get to the top with His help. Sometimes we walk, sometimes we roll back, but He is with us and will keep us on the path and is faithful to be beside us even when we get off the path - if we ask Him.
I thank God for letting me be a part of such a special night. Andrew is 16 1/2, and it weighs heavily on me that he is growing up too fast. When we should be pushing him for independence, we are having to hold him closer and keep him safe - while still trying to show him how to do for himself. It's harder than the usual, much harder. But God is working on me - to show me what to do, to reveal things, and to teach me to trust Him instead of worrying about my feelings or anything I can dream up to worry about! Maybe I will learn more to help me with the other boys and Sam who will have a different situation too.
Isaiah 40:31 has been my favorite verse since high school. I hear it more and more in songs and other places. It amazes me that it has the same meaning but how it helps me more and more. I don't twist the words, but it holds so much meaning that it does fit so many times I have gone through in my life. God knew that when He first brought it to my attention.
Happy Weekend! Some of the boys will help Pete with the Grandfather Mountain Marathon tomorrow. Part of us just went to work on a project and worked hard - the boys helped so much. We need to work on our house tomorrow! They are learning more and more about cleaning, washing clothes, etc. But they have a great handle on helping with Sam's stuff. For that, I am so so thankful. Sunday I have a special service to attend, for Mrs. Cummins. I will be returning to a church I have not been in for years. I grew up there. My dad grew up there. My grandparents were married there and both had their funerals there. I was baptized and married there. The building holds many memories and will probably be much the same. I look forward to being there, as the last time was not a good one. I am hopeful to see how God worked so many tough situations in drawing away from there and hope to feel a peace about the place.
It is thundering here. We hope to have lots of rain. Crack, crack! I love the sound of a thunderstorm.
Have a great weekend!
Andrew came up strong - running hard. He passed a guy on the last switchback. He stopped at the top and then realized the finish was pushed back just a little. The guy passed him, but he still was 6th place of about 850 runners with a time below 35 minutes! I was so excited! I was so thankful. Today, as I drove down the 421 mountain, my eyes filled with tears as I thanked God for giving Andrew this great race and great encouragement - which mean so much after almost a year of struggles. He still struggles - he even did some last night - but he can see how it is to overcome with the help of God Who loves him even more than his parents!
We sat in traffic on 105 for a long long time. I was so worried I would not make it up to see him. I knew I would probably get him to the race. We dropped him off and went on up. The first parking lot was full, so they sent us on up to the next which made me very nervous. We were sitting on the mountain in traffic, and it was not fun. I cannot stand that. Then they seemed to be turning us around. By that time, Sam's sugar had not been checked in a while. I was planning on checking him right when we got there. A very nice lady made a way for us to go on up to the very top. It made the night so much easier to get to his snacks, check his bsl, and give him shots. We are thankful for Diana - wherever she is!
We got to see so many people and see so many people fulfill their goals and dreams to finish this race. There is none like it!
When you are on top of Grandfather Mountain, you cannot help but see and feel the majesty of God. The views are beautiful and beyond anything you see anywhere else. The air is different. The thunder rumbled last night and some lightning flashed, but it never rained on us. It cooled a little, and a breeze was blowing. It was such a peaceful night - well, for me. The race organizers were busy working and cleaning up. But you just cannot help but know you are in one of the most special places in the world on top of that mountain. When we relate our good times to being at the top or on the top of the mountain, you can certainly feel where that comes from when you are up there! Such a difference from the bottom to the top. So many places to fall or struggle or fail, but just like those runners pushed through running almost straight up in places, we can get to the top with His help. Sometimes we walk, sometimes we roll back, but He is with us and will keep us on the path and is faithful to be beside us even when we get off the path - if we ask Him.
I thank God for letting me be a part of such a special night. Andrew is 16 1/2, and it weighs heavily on me that he is growing up too fast. When we should be pushing him for independence, we are having to hold him closer and keep him safe - while still trying to show him how to do for himself. It's harder than the usual, much harder. But God is working on me - to show me what to do, to reveal things, and to teach me to trust Him instead of worrying about my feelings or anything I can dream up to worry about! Maybe I will learn more to help me with the other boys and Sam who will have a different situation too.
Isaiah 40:31 has been my favorite verse since high school. I hear it more and more in songs and other places. It amazes me that it has the same meaning but how it helps me more and more. I don't twist the words, but it holds so much meaning that it does fit so many times I have gone through in my life. God knew that when He first brought it to my attention.
Happy Weekend! Some of the boys will help Pete with the Grandfather Mountain Marathon tomorrow. Part of us just went to work on a project and worked hard - the boys helped so much. We need to work on our house tomorrow! They are learning more and more about cleaning, washing clothes, etc. But they have a great handle on helping with Sam's stuff. For that, I am so so thankful. Sunday I have a special service to attend, for Mrs. Cummins. I will be returning to a church I have not been in for years. I grew up there. My dad grew up there. My grandparents were married there and both had their funerals there. I was baptized and married there. The building holds many memories and will probably be much the same. I look forward to being there, as the last time was not a good one. I am hopeful to see how God worked so many tough situations in drawing away from there and hope to feel a peace about the place.
It is thundering here. We hope to have lots of rain. Crack, crack! I love the sound of a thunderstorm.
Have a great weekend!
Friday, July 2, 2010
4th of July Weekend...already????
Wow! The summer is flying by too fast. And though fall is indeed my favorite season of all, I needed this summer time to catch up, slow down, and just have an easier schedule! This has been a week of catch-up, seeing friends, and going to lunch. It has been a good week, but I cannot believe July is here already!!!! Vacation out of town is over, except my girls' trip right before school starts. Swimming Mondays start this next week, but the boys have orientation at the new high school only a month from now!!!!! That's too close! I am still wondering how that traffic pattern will work! Still thinking about a helicopter!
As we go through this weekend, and the 4th of July itself, we should be remembering our freedom that most (I know I do!) of us take for granted. And also, we should remember the service men and women and their families - all of them, the ones long gone and the ones still fighting. We have so much for which to be thankful. And that is only (only?) our freedom on this earth! We are offered true freedom for what comes after this - that came as a gift from our mighty God through His Son, Jesus. I wonder if we got a taste of life in another country, or an eternal life separated from God, if we would choose to live differently with different priorities. I know if I could truly grasp this the right way, I surely would. Something to start working on IMMEDIATELY!
Andrew had labs today for the pulmonologist and his thyroid. Sam's insulin ratios and amounts were changed quite drastically when I called the doctor's office. He has been very low in the mornings and running quite high the rest of the day. I have changed his diet some and kept a close watch, so something had changed! I told Carla that the only good thing about this was the plan the nurse and doctor came up with was what I though it might be. Maybe that means I am somewhere on the page!!!!
Will has been gone for a couple of days, and we miss him! He will be home later, so Sam is especially excited. He always misses him.
Going to go work on clothes - sorting for friends, consignment and ebay. I need to get the stuff out of my house and will try to make a little money while doing it! Sam is watching Curious George, and it's hard not to join him! But if I make some progress, I maybe can take a break and watch Judge Judy!
Happy 4th! Happy Freedom! I will remember to pray for those who sacrifice for our freedom! And I will remember to pray for freedom and for eternal life for those who do not have it!
As we go through this weekend, and the 4th of July itself, we should be remembering our freedom that most (I know I do!) of us take for granted. And also, we should remember the service men and women and their families - all of them, the ones long gone and the ones still fighting. We have so much for which to be thankful. And that is only (only?) our freedom on this earth! We are offered true freedom for what comes after this - that came as a gift from our mighty God through His Son, Jesus. I wonder if we got a taste of life in another country, or an eternal life separated from God, if we would choose to live differently with different priorities. I know if I could truly grasp this the right way, I surely would. Something to start working on IMMEDIATELY!
Andrew had labs today for the pulmonologist and his thyroid. Sam's insulin ratios and amounts were changed quite drastically when I called the doctor's office. He has been very low in the mornings and running quite high the rest of the day. I have changed his diet some and kept a close watch, so something had changed! I told Carla that the only good thing about this was the plan the nurse and doctor came up with was what I though it might be. Maybe that means I am somewhere on the page!!!!
Will has been gone for a couple of days, and we miss him! He will be home later, so Sam is especially excited. He always misses him.
Going to go work on clothes - sorting for friends, consignment and ebay. I need to get the stuff out of my house and will try to make a little money while doing it! Sam is watching Curious George, and it's hard not to join him! But if I make some progress, I maybe can take a break and watch Judge Judy!
Happy 4th! Happy Freedom! I will remember to pray for those who sacrifice for our freedom! And I will remember to pray for freedom and for eternal life for those who do not have it!
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
VBS Week
Sam has had a great time going to TWO Bible schools this week. He got sick yesterday morning right after I dropped him off with Will at one, so I turned around and went to get him. He felt well enough to go to another last night and had quite a time. I have never seen him sing and dance so much - especially in front of other people! Today he woke up with a really low blood sugar and then ran high all day (that's why diabetes is so hard sometimes!), so I kept him home tonight. He had a high protein dinner, and we will see if that will offset some of these numbers. I fix him those things, but he tends to eat the carbs instead of the protein; but not tonight! He really like scrambled eggs with cheese on them and fried ham. It makes it easier that he is not a juice drinker, and he loves water. When Sam was a baby, Dr. Adams suggested I give him some water at certain times in his bottle so he would get used to the taste. He is one of my best water drinkers, and that is soooo important now. I need to remind Dr. Adams he did that with Sam but none of the others! God was already preparing us!
Will has been gone the past two days - yesterday to the auction with Chad and Bobby and today and tonight with a friend. He did so well yesterday - calling me the minute Sam looked funny and checking him and staying right with him until I came. I told Pete that Will can sense things, and Sam listens to him and does what he says. I am so glad Will will be at HP next year with Sam. So thankful.
Peter's hamstring is hurting him some, so I don't know about The Bear for him. Andrew has been running very consistently. He is really working hard again this summer. I hope his race next week is great. In two weeks, Andrew has three doctor appointments on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Only one is in Charlotte, so we are thankful for that! That might be a fun boys and Mommy trip! I just want Andrew to have a GREAT race. Last year he worked so hard only to see it all fall apart at the end. He handled it better than I did, but it's hard to see him struggle so. I was not even sure I should have let him run some races he ran, but he was determined. I just wish somehow he could have been rewarded or recognized in some way for his efforts. Not many people could do what he did on Saturdays after suffering so many seizures and upsets in a week. And then there was the week that he started a new medication and somehow lost his body heat - in a scary way. I don't want to dwell on these this year, but I hope he can see some rewards from his hard work. That is why I am extra thankful for his Bear run last year. I know he has that in him, and I know God let us get a glimpse of it.
Signing off now. It's been a much cooler day in Boone, and we are all thankful for that!
Will has been gone the past two days - yesterday to the auction with Chad and Bobby and today and tonight with a friend. He did so well yesterday - calling me the minute Sam looked funny and checking him and staying right with him until I came. I told Pete that Will can sense things, and Sam listens to him and does what he says. I am so glad Will will be at HP next year with Sam. So thankful.
Peter's hamstring is hurting him some, so I don't know about The Bear for him. Andrew has been running very consistently. He is really working hard again this summer. I hope his race next week is great. In two weeks, Andrew has three doctor appointments on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday. Only one is in Charlotte, so we are thankful for that! That might be a fun boys and Mommy trip! I just want Andrew to have a GREAT race. Last year he worked so hard only to see it all fall apart at the end. He handled it better than I did, but it's hard to see him struggle so. I was not even sure I should have let him run some races he ran, but he was determined. I just wish somehow he could have been rewarded or recognized in some way for his efforts. Not many people could do what he did on Saturdays after suffering so many seizures and upsets in a week. And then there was the week that he started a new medication and somehow lost his body heat - in a scary way. I don't want to dwell on these this year, but I hope he can see some rewards from his hard work. That is why I am extra thankful for his Bear run last year. I know he has that in him, and I know God let us get a glimpse of it.
Signing off now. It's been a much cooler day in Boone, and we are all thankful for that!
Friday, June 25, 2010
Back from Vacation!
Home from vacation! We came home a day early because of the traffic we saw leaving last Saturday! It was a great week at the beach but very hot with no rain, so we are glad to be home and hoping for some rain to cool things off a bit!
We left Friday and spent the night outside Charlotte to get a jump start on the trip. We got to Brad's house right after lunch and hurried out to the beach. We were overwhelmed with the number of people! It was so hot - everyone was in the ocean! It was fun, and we stayed for a couple of hours and then headed back to wait for Whitney, Laura, Ben, and Luke.
On Sunday, Grandad and Mimi came. I tried to go shopping but had a very bad dizzy spell and ended up sitting in the car with the ac going. Pretty bad to be at the outlets and be so sick! I made up for it later - my shopping time! Then I went back and slept for a few hours. The heat must have set me off. I made sure to keep getting in the water and to drink water or lemonade. I had two great books and could hardly put them down, but did to cool off and play with the boys. Sam and I built a great sand castle - complete with loader.
On Monday, Pete took all of the boys and Grandad to the water park. They had a GREAT time until it briefly stormed. They rode and rode the slides. My dad went down one and was very disoriented in the three foot deep water. Pete saw him, but the lifeguard did too and pulled him up. The next time they went down, Pete went first. He thought surely it would not happen again, but it did; and Pete pulled him up before the lifeguard (a different one) even realized what was happening. It was God who made the first one see him. He was so exhausted (my dad) that he slept under a tree for a little while. It gives me shivers, but I was also thankful. My dad rode those slides like he was in his 20's, but he is almost 67! He loves it. We will just make sure Pete goes with him to any water parks.
While they were gone, we went to the beach and then went shopping. It was fun to shop with the girls for a change. After they left, Peter and Will actually went shopping with me - well, they went to Dick's and Adidas while I ran into some places. I wanted to try to Christmas shop a little but did not bring my list. But I had fun baby shopping for the four or five babies I know coming in a few months! And two of the boys needed school shorts, and I found those and can check them off my list in June!
Everyone left on Wednesday except our family. We went to the beach and played mini golf. Guess who won by one stroke? They could not believe Mommy won either. Sam and I both got a hole in one on the same hole. He was as excited for me as for himself! I wish I had pulled out my camera when the dinosaur moved. Sam was trying to decide if he was going to get him!
We also saw Toy Story 3 on Tuesday which was fun. We took up the whole back row practically! It was nice and cool, and everyone enjoyed it - except for Pete who expected more!
Today we came home. We left at about 10 and got home before 5. We did not have bad traffic, and we have unpacked and washed all of our stuff! Tomorrow we have all day to work on the house and go to the store! My boys eat all of the time! But I am not complaining - I want them to grow! Will has already been out mowing and visiting all of the neighbors. He missed being home! We are happy that we are all so excited to come HOME from vacation! That's a good sign. Andrew immediately got out his summer reading so we can look for his books this next week.
Pete's Father's Day gift arrived while we were gone - a canvas of a picture I took of the boys a couple of years ago. It turned out great. He said he could not wait to take it to work - knowing I already have a special place for it in the den.
Better sign off. Sam is waiting patiently - for now.
We left Friday and spent the night outside Charlotte to get a jump start on the trip. We got to Brad's house right after lunch and hurried out to the beach. We were overwhelmed with the number of people! It was so hot - everyone was in the ocean! It was fun, and we stayed for a couple of hours and then headed back to wait for Whitney, Laura, Ben, and Luke.
On Sunday, Grandad and Mimi came. I tried to go shopping but had a very bad dizzy spell and ended up sitting in the car with the ac going. Pretty bad to be at the outlets and be so sick! I made up for it later - my shopping time! Then I went back and slept for a few hours. The heat must have set me off. I made sure to keep getting in the water and to drink water or lemonade. I had two great books and could hardly put them down, but did to cool off and play with the boys. Sam and I built a great sand castle - complete with loader.
On Monday, Pete took all of the boys and Grandad to the water park. They had a GREAT time until it briefly stormed. They rode and rode the slides. My dad went down one and was very disoriented in the three foot deep water. Pete saw him, but the lifeguard did too and pulled him up. The next time they went down, Pete went first. He thought surely it would not happen again, but it did; and Pete pulled him up before the lifeguard (a different one) even realized what was happening. It was God who made the first one see him. He was so exhausted (my dad) that he slept under a tree for a little while. It gives me shivers, but I was also thankful. My dad rode those slides like he was in his 20's, but he is almost 67! He loves it. We will just make sure Pete goes with him to any water parks.
While they were gone, we went to the beach and then went shopping. It was fun to shop with the girls for a change. After they left, Peter and Will actually went shopping with me - well, they went to Dick's and Adidas while I ran into some places. I wanted to try to Christmas shop a little but did not bring my list. But I had fun baby shopping for the four or five babies I know coming in a few months! And two of the boys needed school shorts, and I found those and can check them off my list in June!
Everyone left on Wednesday except our family. We went to the beach and played mini golf. Guess who won by one stroke? They could not believe Mommy won either. Sam and I both got a hole in one on the same hole. He was as excited for me as for himself! I wish I had pulled out my camera when the dinosaur moved. Sam was trying to decide if he was going to get him!
We also saw Toy Story 3 on Tuesday which was fun. We took up the whole back row practically! It was nice and cool, and everyone enjoyed it - except for Pete who expected more!
Today we came home. We left at about 10 and got home before 5. We did not have bad traffic, and we have unpacked and washed all of our stuff! Tomorrow we have all day to work on the house and go to the store! My boys eat all of the time! But I am not complaining - I want them to grow! Will has already been out mowing and visiting all of the neighbors. He missed being home! We are happy that we are all so excited to come HOME from vacation! That's a good sign. Andrew immediately got out his summer reading so we can look for his books this next week.
Pete's Father's Day gift arrived while we were gone - a canvas of a picture I took of the boys a couple of years ago. It turned out great. He said he could not wait to take it to work - knowing I already have a special place for it in the den.
Better sign off. Sam is waiting patiently - for now.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Packing with NO energy
It's been a week with NO energy. Combine that with heat in the mountains, lots of laundry, packing, cleaning (well, trying), and lots of extra exercise; and I am not done packing or cleaning for tomorrow!
Peter had a check up this week. Andrew had a hair cut. Today is Peter's ortho check up, and the boys have practice at 6:00. But the dishwasher and washer are going, and Will is cleaning out the car to prepare it to be washed and vacuumed - and he is cleaning the back porch. Sam's clothes are laid out. Mine are almost, and the boys are packing themselves. I have been packing all week - food, sheets, towels, etc. and can concentrate on camera, books to read, and other things today. But it will be fun to leave tomorrow and swim at a hotel on our way. The boys will love that!
I have fallen asleep with my head propped up in my hands three times this week! And it's only Thursday! But I have to think of all that went out of my house for the yard sale and to be donated and to KNOW I am making progress in simplifying my life - even with all of the interruptions - and I am not talking about my boys!
I am ready for a break from my every day routine that until a week or so ago started at 6:00 with a non-stop hectic pace until at least 3:00 with about an hour break. This is my time to wind down. And I hope with the new high school's location the mornings will be easier with much less driving. If all goes well with Andrew, he may be driving sometime in the fall. We will wait and see. No rush. Safe and well-prepared is better than a teenage driver for convenience. When I turn him loose, I want to feel like I trust Sam to ride with him too. The first time Sam rode with Laura, he looked around and said, "Lala, where is your mama? Does she let you drive by yourself?" It was so funny! Time does fly - especially now. So I hold extra tight to my little boy (he informed me he was not a precious baby doll - but I told him that was just my special name for him), so he won't go anywhere too fast! On the other hand, he will be one of the ones I have to let become independent - it's a necessity for him.
Better get back to the packing before Peter and I go. Another opportunity to read a minute maybe! That's one good thing about waiting during appointments!
Off to Charlotte tomorrow and then the beach! I saw my neighbor today when she graciously brought my office sample sandwiches from Chick-fil-A. Boy, they hit the spot! She offered to get our mail, so that is a big check off my list. And we have at least four people to watch our house closely, so that is a relief too. Our new house was a little isolated for that, and so that is one thing I enjoy about living on this road with great neighbors.
Off to get ready! Have a great weekend!
Peter had a check up this week. Andrew had a hair cut. Today is Peter's ortho check up, and the boys have practice at 6:00. But the dishwasher and washer are going, and Will is cleaning out the car to prepare it to be washed and vacuumed - and he is cleaning the back porch. Sam's clothes are laid out. Mine are almost, and the boys are packing themselves. I have been packing all week - food, sheets, towels, etc. and can concentrate on camera, books to read, and other things today. But it will be fun to leave tomorrow and swim at a hotel on our way. The boys will love that!
I have fallen asleep with my head propped up in my hands three times this week! And it's only Thursday! But I have to think of all that went out of my house for the yard sale and to be donated and to KNOW I am making progress in simplifying my life - even with all of the interruptions - and I am not talking about my boys!
I am ready for a break from my every day routine that until a week or so ago started at 6:00 with a non-stop hectic pace until at least 3:00 with about an hour break. This is my time to wind down. And I hope with the new high school's location the mornings will be easier with much less driving. If all goes well with Andrew, he may be driving sometime in the fall. We will wait and see. No rush. Safe and well-prepared is better than a teenage driver for convenience. When I turn him loose, I want to feel like I trust Sam to ride with him too. The first time Sam rode with Laura, he looked around and said, "Lala, where is your mama? Does she let you drive by yourself?" It was so funny! Time does fly - especially now. So I hold extra tight to my little boy (he informed me he was not a precious baby doll - but I told him that was just my special name for him), so he won't go anywhere too fast! On the other hand, he will be one of the ones I have to let become independent - it's a necessity for him.
Better get back to the packing before Peter and I go. Another opportunity to read a minute maybe! That's one good thing about waiting during appointments!
Off to Charlotte tomorrow and then the beach! I saw my neighbor today when she graciously brought my office sample sandwiches from Chick-fil-A. Boy, they hit the spot! She offered to get our mail, so that is a big check off my list. And we have at least four people to watch our house closely, so that is a relief too. Our new house was a little isolated for that, and so that is one thing I enjoy about living on this road with great neighbors.
Off to get ready! Have a great weekend!
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
A favorite summer memory!
An old memory, but a great one! The summer of 1988 had to be one of Boone's hottest! The days were full of sun - beating down on those of us who worked outside running the rides at Tweetsie Railroad. We had one little umbrella over the control box at the ride. Most of the time we returned from our safety checks to find well-hydrated but hot parents huddled under our only shade for the day! We had to politely ask them to move so we could access the control switches for the rides. Slight breezes were most welcome as were the late afternoon thunderstorms. As long as there was no lightning, we could continue in the rain; but most vacationers did not want to ride in the rain - unless they were not returning with a rain check and may make their children ride, even in tears, to get their money's worth! We had mercy and tried to put them on the rides with covers, like the carousel.
Anyway, I worked in jeans, tennis shoes, and a long sleeved chambray shirt with a bandana - every hot day! At the end of the day, I was worn out, sweaty, and ready for something cold. I would go home and take a shower and change into my shorts and then visit Pete at his job at TCBY! He went to summer school during the day and worked there in the evenings. Since he closed, we did not see each other much during that period of time and were newly engaged. Our solution? I would go and sit in a corner in the new air conditioned store and people watch while he worked. He did not like the yogurt, so he gave me what he would get on a break - usually a chocolate waffle cone with chocolate soft serve yogurt. So wonderful after a hot day in the sun!
Once I went with some friends. We watched as one girl came in with a couple and flirted with my dear fiance - asking him to try each flavor more than once and giggling. He never noticed. And I appreciated that. And she did not know he was engaged. I would not let him wear his wedding ring that early - though he had tried. He wanted to put it on the day we got them! So I watched while he patiently waited on her, and she flirted with him. She was a little mortified when he came over to tell my goodbye when we left. I thought it best just to act like I had not noticed her - that way she would not feel as bad. And he is so good looking. She was not the only one who flirted with him!
So going to Waffle Cone Wednesday brought back sweet memories today. The summer before we were married - just working and going to school, and life was very simple. I thank the Lord for giving me such a wonderful, hard working, and good looking husband!
Anyway, I worked in jeans, tennis shoes, and a long sleeved chambray shirt with a bandana - every hot day! At the end of the day, I was worn out, sweaty, and ready for something cold. I would go home and take a shower and change into my shorts and then visit Pete at his job at TCBY! He went to summer school during the day and worked there in the evenings. Since he closed, we did not see each other much during that period of time and were newly engaged. Our solution? I would go and sit in a corner in the new air conditioned store and people watch while he worked. He did not like the yogurt, so he gave me what he would get on a break - usually a chocolate waffle cone with chocolate soft serve yogurt. So wonderful after a hot day in the sun!
Once I went with some friends. We watched as one girl came in with a couple and flirted with my dear fiance - asking him to try each flavor more than once and giggling. He never noticed. And I appreciated that. And she did not know he was engaged. I would not let him wear his wedding ring that early - though he had tried. He wanted to put it on the day we got them! So I watched while he patiently waited on her, and she flirted with him. She was a little mortified when he came over to tell my goodbye when we left. I thought it best just to act like I had not noticed her - that way she would not feel as bad. And he is so good looking. She was not the only one who flirted with him!
So going to Waffle Cone Wednesday brought back sweet memories today. The summer before we were married - just working and going to school, and life was very simple. I thank the Lord for giving me such a wonderful, hard working, and good looking husband!
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
What really bothers me...
What really bothers me right now...should not. It's pretty much that simple! I have so many things that are great and wonderful and so many things for which to be thankful. But those don't seem to be the things I focus on some days. Well, that has to change - and quickly. When I am overly sensitive it makes me miserable - anywhere I go it can hit me. And it brings me way down. And I let it which makes me mad at myself which makes it even worse.
"We bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord. We bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord. And we offer up to You, the sacrifices of thanksgiving. And we offer up to you, the sacrifices of praise." I remember singing this song a lot in church. But I really did not know what the sacrifice part meant - at all.
A lot of times we think of a sacrifice as something in the Old Testament or something we give up. The sacrifice of praise that I saw so clearly was when Steven Curtis Chapman sang on the lawn of the Biltmore House just mere months after the tragic accident that took his youngest daughter. Not only that, but his precious son was driving the car involved in the accident. He was not only grieving the physical loss of a child but also for his son dealing with the accident.
He came out (with his two sons) and sang "Blessed Be the Name of the Lord", and his voice cracked on the "You give and take away" part. I had tears streaming down my face. For the next couple of hours, he talked and sang and honestly told us how he felt in the dark days - and that he knew he could never ever sing again. But there he was, praising God in the midst of one of the hardest storms ever in life. And it was like water washing over my soul - literally. And I need that again - not from Steven Curtis Chapman - but from God. He allowed God to continue to use him to show and tell people about what God has done for him and his family - especially now - and he had a testimony before. He had just lost so much but was praising God in a real way that only could come from unbearable pain.
When we can't count on anything in this world - circumstances, people, etc. - God is always there. He never moves. He never leaves us. In the great times, He rejoices with us. In the dark times, He holds our hands. When we cannot go on, He carries us. He sends people to help us - sometimes people we know and sometimes people we don't. He sends us letters in the mail or leaves messages for us where we will surely find them. He whispers to us through His word or speaks to us through a song on the radio. Sometimes we don't see what He has for us so clearly, and sometimes it's so clear that we cannot even believe it.
I know this, and yet in my everyday life, I let things bother me that should not even get a second thought or glance from me. I have too many important things to tend to and too many important things to praise God for.
Today as I talked to my mom on the phone (who called early because she woke up with Sam on her mind and wanted to check on him) and then one of my friends, I was reminded that I need to keep my eyes on Him. When I take them off, I get way off track - quickly. I reread Psalm 13 in my Bible that is clearly marked with the date of September 21, 2009 - the day after Sam's diagnosis. Reverend and Mrs. Thrasher called and prayed for my baby while I held onto his foot. And in about five minutes they threw so many verses and truths into my troubled heart and brain that I could feel peace washing over me. I had to let it. I had not let myself totally break down, and it was not going to be good. I was on auto pilot. I stayed there for a long time and had been on that for other things Irealized later. So when I turned off the auto pilot, I was quite overwhelmed. But in those six verses, like Rev. Thrasher told me, David asked God why He had left him in despair and then thanked Him at the end for dealing bountifully with him. Sometimes we just need to hang on to His promises and His Word while we are in despair and KNOW that He will get us through. And that will be the end of the wondering. We can concentrate on what is to come - better days.
When we don't have a lot of easy days on this earth, we think we should despair; but it can also make us more eager to be with Him and not tied to things on this earth. And then we start thinking about what we want to take with us - our loved ones and others we don't know. And that should keep us occupied for a while! Now that is something to work towards!
So right now for me, I need to separate from things that I can while working my way closer to Him and His Word. Then I won't be so overly sensitive and worry about what my children are missing out on, etc. I can concentrate on helping them be who they need to be - what He has for them to be- and the rest will come. It's hard because of the way we think in this world, but I know He is working on me.
"Blessed Be Your Name" Matt Redmon
"We bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord. We bring the sacrifice of praise into the house of the Lord. And we offer up to You, the sacrifices of thanksgiving. And we offer up to you, the sacrifices of praise." I remember singing this song a lot in church. But I really did not know what the sacrifice part meant - at all.
A lot of times we think of a sacrifice as something in the Old Testament or something we give up. The sacrifice of praise that I saw so clearly was when Steven Curtis Chapman sang on the lawn of the Biltmore House just mere months after the tragic accident that took his youngest daughter. Not only that, but his precious son was driving the car involved in the accident. He was not only grieving the physical loss of a child but also for his son dealing with the accident.
He came out (with his two sons) and sang "Blessed Be the Name of the Lord", and his voice cracked on the "You give and take away" part. I had tears streaming down my face. For the next couple of hours, he talked and sang and honestly told us how he felt in the dark days - and that he knew he could never ever sing again. But there he was, praising God in the midst of one of the hardest storms ever in life. And it was like water washing over my soul - literally. And I need that again - not from Steven Curtis Chapman - but from God. He allowed God to continue to use him to show and tell people about what God has done for him and his family - especially now - and he had a testimony before. He had just lost so much but was praising God in a real way that only could come from unbearable pain.
When we can't count on anything in this world - circumstances, people, etc. - God is always there. He never moves. He never leaves us. In the great times, He rejoices with us. In the dark times, He holds our hands. When we cannot go on, He carries us. He sends people to help us - sometimes people we know and sometimes people we don't. He sends us letters in the mail or leaves messages for us where we will surely find them. He whispers to us through His word or speaks to us through a song on the radio. Sometimes we don't see what He has for us so clearly, and sometimes it's so clear that we cannot even believe it.
I know this, and yet in my everyday life, I let things bother me that should not even get a second thought or glance from me. I have too many important things to tend to and too many important things to praise God for.
Today as I talked to my mom on the phone (who called early because she woke up with Sam on her mind and wanted to check on him) and then one of my friends, I was reminded that I need to keep my eyes on Him. When I take them off, I get way off track - quickly. I reread Psalm 13 in my Bible that is clearly marked with the date of September 21, 2009 - the day after Sam's diagnosis. Reverend and Mrs. Thrasher called and prayed for my baby while I held onto his foot. And in about five minutes they threw so many verses and truths into my troubled heart and brain that I could feel peace washing over me. I had to let it. I had not let myself totally break down, and it was not going to be good. I was on auto pilot. I stayed there for a long time and had been on that for other things Irealized later. So when I turned off the auto pilot, I was quite overwhelmed. But in those six verses, like Rev. Thrasher told me, David asked God why He had left him in despair and then thanked Him at the end for dealing bountifully with him. Sometimes we just need to hang on to His promises and His Word while we are in despair and KNOW that He will get us through. And that will be the end of the wondering. We can concentrate on what is to come - better days.
When we don't have a lot of easy days on this earth, we think we should despair; but it can also make us more eager to be with Him and not tied to things on this earth. And then we start thinking about what we want to take with us - our loved ones and others we don't know. And that should keep us occupied for a while! Now that is something to work towards!
So right now for me, I need to separate from things that I can while working my way closer to Him and His Word. Then I won't be so overly sensitive and worry about what my children are missing out on, etc. I can concentrate on helping them be who they need to be - what He has for them to be- and the rest will come. It's hard because of the way we think in this world, but I know He is working on me.
"Blessed Be Your Name" Matt Redmon
Blessed Be Your Name
In the land that is plentiful
Where Your streams of abundance flow
Blessed be Your name
Blessed Be Your name
When I'm found in the desert place
Though I walk through the wilderness
Blessed Be Your name
Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name
Blessed be Your name
When the sun's shining down on me
When the world's 'all as it should be'
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be Your name
On the road marked with suffering
Though there's pain in the offering
Blessed be Your name
Every blessing You pour out
I'll turn back to praise
When the darkness closes in, Lord
Still I will say
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your name
Blessed be the name of the Lord
Blessed be Your glorious name
You give and take away
You give and take away
My heart will choose to say
Lord, blessed be Your name
Monday, June 14, 2010
A hot day in the mountains!
It's been hot here! But the wind sweeps the rain in - sometimes with thunder, but we have not seen lightning. Those breezes are very welcome to cool off the temps that we are not that used to!
We had a GREAT yard sale on Saturday, making some beach money (it was for medical bills, but we changed our minds since the boys need a fun break!) and getting rid of lots of stuff. I took most of the rest to donate today and always feel so good to get it out of my car! I am grateful to our neighbors who helped us set up extra tables and came by to visit. We are also especially thankful for the neighbors who sold us a John Deere Gator for Sam at an unbelievable price. We have wanted to get him one for so long, and he loves it. That was a very generous gesture, and we appreciate it! We have such great neighbors. And in the mail Saturday was the sweetest card from my grandmother with a gift inside. I cried when I opened it. I had just had a conversation with one of my neighbor's about accepting a gift and letting the giver have a blessing too. I would rather be the giver - most of us would. But it is very humbling and sometimes a direct answer to a prayer when someone does something nice for us. God knows what we need - even if we did not even know to ask for it. I am blessed with people who are so thoughtful and lift me up at just the right times.
Andrew needs prayers to grow. He is eating well and running a lot, and he has not had a seizure in a long time. For that we are very thankful. Whether the seizures have anything to do with his growth - we really don't know. But I know God can make him grow no matter what. So I ask that if you pray for Andrew that you pray for wonderful growth and no more seizures - ever.
Peter won the Over the Creek and Through the Woods 5K on Saturday. He entered at the last minute, so Pete dropped him off on his way to his United Way meeting. Andrew ran from home to see him, so they had a fun morning.
Will is working hard. If he is not out with Bobby working on wells, he is over at Mack's helping seal his driveway or working on wood. Or he is at the neighbor's house helping solve the mystery of their missing truck. Our neighbor has a blog called Little Creek Life, and she tells a great story about their missing truck and what happened. It is interesting and funny and kept us in suspense for a few days! Will was here when the truck was returned, by tow truck, and knew to write down the license plate of the accompanying vehicle and wrecker service. My only problem is he did not get me, AND he talked to the guy who took it. The story is well worth a read! I was proud of my little Encyclopedia Brown!
Sam is doing well. He is keeping very busy with his brothers while I work in the mornings. He still gets up early most mornings, and I check his blood sugar and give him something to eat before I leave. It's a sweet time in the mornings. Sometimes though, he crawls into bed with one of his brothers and sleeps a little longer. They love that.
We are packing for our beach trip coming up. If we start packing early, we take less it seems. My list of things to do before we leave is not too bad - if it does not get longer! We look forward to some slow time together and are excited that some cousins will be joining us! I look forward to some shopping time with girls.
I am also looking forward to some catch up time with my Bible and reading. I feel so empty and like I need a refill - a filling up. I have been praying about this for a while. Sometimes I can feel so "mean" (for lack of a better term) because I am overly sensitive about comments to me or things that go on around me. And I try to be aware and pray that things won't bother me. And they should not because in the long run or the big picture, they don't matter at all. So I have determined that I need to ask for God's guidance and be still and listen to what He tells me to get that filling up. Dealing with things can shift my focus, sometimes too easily. But in the midst of my worst situations, I have been closest to Him. When He is all I have to depend on or cry out to. I have great listeners around me (a few that get the most), but He does not even want me to depend on them. He wants me to depend on Him alone. Of course He puts people in our lives to help us, and we need to remember Who put them there. Again, He knows what we need before we ask. I think it is a step forward when we sometimes realize what we need and ask. And it is so amazing to see His work unfold. There are so many things we don't understand, and won't on this earth, but He understands it all; and that gives me comfort and peace.
Hoping it will rain again soon! The heat has rolled back in! I thanked the Lord that Pete was hot on our way out the door to church yesterday. That may mean some AC in our future!
Have a great week!
We had a GREAT yard sale on Saturday, making some beach money (it was for medical bills, but we changed our minds since the boys need a fun break!) and getting rid of lots of stuff. I took most of the rest to donate today and always feel so good to get it out of my car! I am grateful to our neighbors who helped us set up extra tables and came by to visit. We are also especially thankful for the neighbors who sold us a John Deere Gator for Sam at an unbelievable price. We have wanted to get him one for so long, and he loves it. That was a very generous gesture, and we appreciate it! We have such great neighbors. And in the mail Saturday was the sweetest card from my grandmother with a gift inside. I cried when I opened it. I had just had a conversation with one of my neighbor's about accepting a gift and letting the giver have a blessing too. I would rather be the giver - most of us would. But it is very humbling and sometimes a direct answer to a prayer when someone does something nice for us. God knows what we need - even if we did not even know to ask for it. I am blessed with people who are so thoughtful and lift me up at just the right times.
Andrew needs prayers to grow. He is eating well and running a lot, and he has not had a seizure in a long time. For that we are very thankful. Whether the seizures have anything to do with his growth - we really don't know. But I know God can make him grow no matter what. So I ask that if you pray for Andrew that you pray for wonderful growth and no more seizures - ever.
Peter won the Over the Creek and Through the Woods 5K on Saturday. He entered at the last minute, so Pete dropped him off on his way to his United Way meeting. Andrew ran from home to see him, so they had a fun morning.
Will is working hard. If he is not out with Bobby working on wells, he is over at Mack's helping seal his driveway or working on wood. Or he is at the neighbor's house helping solve the mystery of their missing truck. Our neighbor has a blog called Little Creek Life, and she tells a great story about their missing truck and what happened. It is interesting and funny and kept us in suspense for a few days! Will was here when the truck was returned, by tow truck, and knew to write down the license plate of the accompanying vehicle and wrecker service. My only problem is he did not get me, AND he talked to the guy who took it. The story is well worth a read! I was proud of my little Encyclopedia Brown!
Sam is doing well. He is keeping very busy with his brothers while I work in the mornings. He still gets up early most mornings, and I check his blood sugar and give him something to eat before I leave. It's a sweet time in the mornings. Sometimes though, he crawls into bed with one of his brothers and sleeps a little longer. They love that.
We are packing for our beach trip coming up. If we start packing early, we take less it seems. My list of things to do before we leave is not too bad - if it does not get longer! We look forward to some slow time together and are excited that some cousins will be joining us! I look forward to some shopping time with girls.
I am also looking forward to some catch up time with my Bible and reading. I feel so empty and like I need a refill - a filling up. I have been praying about this for a while. Sometimes I can feel so "mean" (for lack of a better term) because I am overly sensitive about comments to me or things that go on around me. And I try to be aware and pray that things won't bother me. And they should not because in the long run or the big picture, they don't matter at all. So I have determined that I need to ask for God's guidance and be still and listen to what He tells me to get that filling up. Dealing with things can shift my focus, sometimes too easily. But in the midst of my worst situations, I have been closest to Him. When He is all I have to depend on or cry out to. I have great listeners around me (a few that get the most), but He does not even want me to depend on them. He wants me to depend on Him alone. Of course He puts people in our lives to help us, and we need to remember Who put them there. Again, He knows what we need before we ask. I think it is a step forward when we sometimes realize what we need and ask. And it is so amazing to see His work unfold. There are so many things we don't understand, and won't on this earth, but He understands it all; and that gives me comfort and peace.
Hoping it will rain again soon! The heat has rolled back in! I thanked the Lord that Pete was hot on our way out the door to church yesterday. That may mean some AC in our future!
Have a great week!
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
Peter is still a mystery!
Poor Peter is still looking like he has chicken pox, poison oak, measles, and mumps all rolled into one! He is not itching though, so we will give him a few more days to get better. If anything, he is worse. I don't like not knowing things. Peter is never sick, so this is a mystery. And since he had the other two things in the past several days, I am watching for anything new. I hope this is the end of his sick time. Please pray for him!
Andrew looks good - better. He really really needs a growth spurt. I talked to one of his middle school teachers today who reminded me that he can shoot up at any time - it does not have to be now. I have a couple of friends who remind me of this and have been through it. Right now I feel ultra sensitive about some of the things Andrew struggles with (especially the driving and the growing). It seems to SHOUT out at me that he is not where he could be. I keep having to remember to turn these situations and my feelings over to God. I am not usually surrounded by negative people, but sometimes people are so insensitive. I either try not to be around them or give them the benefit of the doubt.
Will worked ALL day. He is tired and dirty to prove it. But he got Mack's old hammock out of it all...and a trip to Lowes. So he is happy...and tired.
Sam is keeping everyone busy. His numbers are swinging from very low to very high. We will get him back on track. He is into watching Christmas movies he just found. He is so funny. He said he is Daddy's precious baby boy - and Mama's. He won't let me call him that much longer I am sure. So I get it in as much as I can. I know how fast time goes, and I am in no rush to have him get too big. But I don't want to be carrying him around when he's 12!
We are having a big yard sale on Saturday and are excited about cleaning out the front entry way to the house! I have had boxes stacked up there for weeks (months?). If you need boys' clothes (GREAT ones!), come on over. Or you can call me to see them on Friday afternoon/evening. I am so excited about getting more and more out of this house! Simpler life is better. Pete took loads and loads of trash to the dump with Brad's trailer several weeks ago. Peter was so surprised at how much I left for him to take. But it was time to get rid of stuff we have had for so long. If it was not good enough to donate, it went to the dump.
Then we are packing for the beach! Going to a different beach this year- and part of my family can come too! The boys are so excited. We usually go to Topsail and just stay there and only leave to go to Jacksonville or Wilmington for a movie. We will have more to do and a little less time at the beach which is good because two children don't need to be in the sun too long. We are not sun bakers; we go early in the morning and later in the afternoon. They will thank us years from now! Sam is so happy that Lala Bug is going to be there! And we never get to eat seafood at the beach, so we look forward to that too! I love seafood!
Work is going great. Since I missed two days last week for out of town appointments, I have stayed longer to get some things done. I love the work and the people.
Better go for now. More yard sale work to do!
Andrew looks good - better. He really really needs a growth spurt. I talked to one of his middle school teachers today who reminded me that he can shoot up at any time - it does not have to be now. I have a couple of friends who remind me of this and have been through it. Right now I feel ultra sensitive about some of the things Andrew struggles with (especially the driving and the growing). It seems to SHOUT out at me that he is not where he could be. I keep having to remember to turn these situations and my feelings over to God. I am not usually surrounded by negative people, but sometimes people are so insensitive. I either try not to be around them or give them the benefit of the doubt.
Will worked ALL day. He is tired and dirty to prove it. But he got Mack's old hammock out of it all...and a trip to Lowes. So he is happy...and tired.
Sam is keeping everyone busy. His numbers are swinging from very low to very high. We will get him back on track. He is into watching Christmas movies he just found. He is so funny. He said he is Daddy's precious baby boy - and Mama's. He won't let me call him that much longer I am sure. So I get it in as much as I can. I know how fast time goes, and I am in no rush to have him get too big. But I don't want to be carrying him around when he's 12!
We are having a big yard sale on Saturday and are excited about cleaning out the front entry way to the house! I have had boxes stacked up there for weeks (months?). If you need boys' clothes (GREAT ones!), come on over. Or you can call me to see them on Friday afternoon/evening. I am so excited about getting more and more out of this house! Simpler life is better. Pete took loads and loads of trash to the dump with Brad's trailer several weeks ago. Peter was so surprised at how much I left for him to take. But it was time to get rid of stuff we have had for so long. If it was not good enough to donate, it went to the dump.
Then we are packing for the beach! Going to a different beach this year- and part of my family can come too! The boys are so excited. We usually go to Topsail and just stay there and only leave to go to Jacksonville or Wilmington for a movie. We will have more to do and a little less time at the beach which is good because two children don't need to be in the sun too long. We are not sun bakers; we go early in the morning and later in the afternoon. They will thank us years from now! Sam is so happy that Lala Bug is going to be there! And we never get to eat seafood at the beach, so we look forward to that too! I love seafood!
Work is going great. Since I missed two days last week for out of town appointments, I have stayed longer to get some things done. I love the work and the people.
Better go for now. More yard sale work to do!
Monday, June 7, 2010
First Day of Summer Vacation!
First Day of Summer Vacation
Today was low-key for the boys. They were so happy to not have to get up early! Sam was sleeping peacefully until I checked his blood sugar before I left and found that he was 54. He got up and had a snack and watched Bob the Builder in my bed. Peter got up soon after to take care of him. He left me a voice mail saying the Pledge of Allegiance. It was so sweet! I am so proud of him for attempting the "big" words!
Peter got to go back to the doctor for the third time in 10 days! He looks like he has poison oak without the itching. Dr. St. Clair said it could be a virus. It is just weird that he has been dehydrated with a horrible headache, had a swollen lymph node, and now this all out of the blue. He looks pitiful but says he does not feel bad!
I stayed at work longer to catch up some things from last week and came home later than I will be. It was so nice to feel like I had accomplished so much and then come home and leave the rest for tomorrow. I love my new job and the people there. I still miss my friends in Admissions, but I know God worked this out for me. I have offered to help some Saturdays, so I hope they don't wait too long to ask if they need me - I may forget 20 years worth of information!
We are so glad school is out! We feel a little guilty for getting out so early after missing so much! Actually, I wish they had had a little more time to get those last objectives in easier. We have plans this summer to keep everyone sharp. We will see how that goes!
Pete is still painting windows, so I hope to post some updated pictures soon. The landscaping outside is great. It really adds to the house.
Have a great week! I hope swimming Mondays start next week! That will be fun! And packing for the beach to get a little early start! And getting ready for a big yard sale Saturday to get rid of a lot of stuff (hopefully!).
Peter got to go back to the doctor for the third time in 10 days! He looks like he has poison oak without the itching. Dr. St. Clair said it could be a virus. It is just weird that he has been dehydrated with a horrible headache, had a swollen lymph node, and now this all out of the blue. He looks pitiful but says he does not feel bad!
I stayed at work longer to catch up some things from last week and came home later than I will be. It was so nice to feel like I had accomplished so much and then come home and leave the rest for tomorrow. I love my new job and the people there. I still miss my friends in Admissions, but I know God worked this out for me. I have offered to help some Saturdays, so I hope they don't wait too long to ask if they need me - I may forget 20 years worth of information!
We are so glad school is out! We feel a little guilty for getting out so early after missing so much! Actually, I wish they had had a little more time to get those last objectives in easier. We have plans this summer to keep everyone sharp. We will see how that goes!
Pete is still painting windows, so I hope to post some updated pictures soon. The landscaping outside is great. It really adds to the house.
Have a great week! I hope swimming Mondays start next week! That will be fun! And packing for the beach to get a little early start! And getting ready for a big yard sale Saturday to get rid of a lot of stuff (hopefully!).
Saturday, May 29, 2010
Great Road Race this AM
Andrew and Peter ran the Bill Gatton 5K this morning in Bristol. Dwayne decided to run at the last minute and got fifth overall and first in the Masters (40 and over!).
Peter was in the lead, but when they came down State Street for the finish, it was Andrew way ahead - running one of his best times. Peter was cruising in behind another man (I think he could have caught). It was exciting, and then there was Dwayne - in 5th!!!! Great day for the family!
We took the boys to IHOP to celebrate after the race, and Peter got a terrible headache. He went to lie down in the car, and Pete came back in. I went out to check on him and found him on the ground between the car and the grass, and he had gotten sick. We barely got him home. He had taken some ibuprofen, but he was totally miserable. I called our Peds Office, and they got him in. So we got home, and then I took him. He was very dehydrated. We gave him almost 30 oz of Gatorade, and then we came home. He is sleeping still. But his head was feeling better and better. His resting heart rate was 50, but it went to 80 when he sat up and to 90 when he stood. We barely missed an IV, and we are thankful for that! We did not want another trip to the ER either - bad memories for me and difficult people sometimes!
So Peter is sleeping, Andrew is resting, Will is with a friend, and Sam is....I guess I had better find out. I think he is following Daddy who is painting interior windows. They look so pretty and make the house look like a dollhouse. It is funny how much I get used to unfinished windows - having moved so much. Pete is a talented painter, so he can knock them out; but they are so tedious!
Looking forward to a peaceful afternoon!
Peter was in the lead, but when they came down State Street for the finish, it was Andrew way ahead - running one of his best times. Peter was cruising in behind another man (I think he could have caught). It was exciting, and then there was Dwayne - in 5th!!!! Great day for the family!
We took the boys to IHOP to celebrate after the race, and Peter got a terrible headache. He went to lie down in the car, and Pete came back in. I went out to check on him and found him on the ground between the car and the grass, and he had gotten sick. We barely got him home. He had taken some ibuprofen, but he was totally miserable. I called our Peds Office, and they got him in. So we got home, and then I took him. He was very dehydrated. We gave him almost 30 oz of Gatorade, and then we came home. He is sleeping still. But his head was feeling better and better. His resting heart rate was 50, but it went to 80 when he sat up and to 90 when he stood. We barely missed an IV, and we are thankful for that! We did not want another trip to the ER either - bad memories for me and difficult people sometimes!
So Peter is sleeping, Andrew is resting, Will is with a friend, and Sam is....I guess I had better find out. I think he is following Daddy who is painting interior windows. They look so pretty and make the house look like a dollhouse. It is funny how much I get used to unfinished windows - having moved so much. Pete is a talented painter, so he can knock them out; but they are so tedious!
Looking forward to a peaceful afternoon!
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
EOG's are almost over!
Day Two of EOG's is over, and only one more day to go! I think we will go to Chick-fil-A in the morning to get Will ready. He has had eggs, bacon, toast, and OJ to get ready each morning; and besides the OJ, it was a great breakfast for Sam to share - more protein, less carbs! Will is not much of a studier, but he has worked hard to get ready for the past week and this past weekend. Our wonderful neighbor also helped with his math review, and his teachers gave me some great books.
Next week is EOC's for Andrew and Peter! They have already been studying, and I am proud of them for getting an early start. I will be glad when the pressure is OFF! School is out next Friday, and we are sad to end the year with some teachers; but we are looking forward to summer! Working a different schedule will give us so much more time together and hopefully help me get back on track!
We are looking forward to the beach later in June, and we are planning something big for the boys later in the year. Andrew is going to be 17 in December! We have always wanted to go on a big vacation, but a medical crisis or too many medical bills seem to prevent it! Pete just decided this is the year, and we are so excited to plan to spend special time together. He wants to fly, and I have already chosen the two children who will sit with me. But I think one of the others has chosen me as his partner. I am sure they will all do fine.
Pete is painting the windows and putting them together. They look great! He is making our house look like a dollhouse. He also did a lot of landscaping in a little bit of time out front. I have some trees to plant along the back property line that Russell sold to me very cheap at Boulder Look Stone Company on Lee Highway. Check it out if you are in Bristol!!!!
Please continue to pray for my boys. We have so much going on - more than what I share. Right now I am most concerned about Andrew's growth because of some information I got in the mail. But, as Carla reminded me, God made Andrew. He knows what He is doing. And Carla and Paula both reminded me of where He has guided us. I don't doubt God. I doubt my ability to listen and do what He says.
Sam has his endocrinologist appointment next week. I am so hoping his A1C number is so much better! But he is up and down and all around. It is sooo hard to keep him on track no matter what I do. I deal with two different insulins AND his food AND his exercise, etc. It is so hard, and I feel like such a failure at it some days. I mean, this has to be one of the hardest things I have ever felt the need to conquer, and that may not be possible - especially at this age.
But seizures are worse, I think, because they are so unpredictable and mess up so many parts of Andrew's life. And I am not sure why I compare the two. It's hard.
Thanks for reading!
Next week is EOC's for Andrew and Peter! They have already been studying, and I am proud of them for getting an early start. I will be glad when the pressure is OFF! School is out next Friday, and we are sad to end the year with some teachers; but we are looking forward to summer! Working a different schedule will give us so much more time together and hopefully help me get back on track!
We are looking forward to the beach later in June, and we are planning something big for the boys later in the year. Andrew is going to be 17 in December! We have always wanted to go on a big vacation, but a medical crisis or too many medical bills seem to prevent it! Pete just decided this is the year, and we are so excited to plan to spend special time together. He wants to fly, and I have already chosen the two children who will sit with me. But I think one of the others has chosen me as his partner. I am sure they will all do fine.
Pete is painting the windows and putting them together. They look great! He is making our house look like a dollhouse. He also did a lot of landscaping in a little bit of time out front. I have some trees to plant along the back property line that Russell sold to me very cheap at Boulder Look Stone Company on Lee Highway. Check it out if you are in Bristol!!!!
Please continue to pray for my boys. We have so much going on - more than what I share. Right now I am most concerned about Andrew's growth because of some information I got in the mail. But, as Carla reminded me, God made Andrew. He knows what He is doing. And Carla and Paula both reminded me of where He has guided us. I don't doubt God. I doubt my ability to listen and do what He says.
Sam has his endocrinologist appointment next week. I am so hoping his A1C number is so much better! But he is up and down and all around. It is sooo hard to keep him on track no matter what I do. I deal with two different insulins AND his food AND his exercise, etc. It is so hard, and I feel like such a failure at it some days. I mean, this has to be one of the hardest things I have ever felt the need to conquer, and that may not be possible - especially at this age.
But seizures are worse, I think, because they are so unpredictable and mess up so many parts of Andrew's life. And I am not sure why I compare the two. It's hard.
Thanks for reading!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
Wednesday, May 19th
Well, today we finished getting everyone's haircut! That is quite an accomplishment - so glad when it's done. I know Kim (who cuts everyone's hair but Pete) must feel quite good about being done for a little while too!
Sam, Will, and I went to Waffle Cone Wednesday and got a treat before we went. Don't tell Peter and Andrew! They were still in school at the time anyway!
Well, we are down to owning one house. And that feels good. We feel the need to simplify, and we were glad that our great renters were able to buy the house. It's done, and we are doing something BIG to celebrate later this year. Not celebrate the sale of the house but to celebrate how God has pulled our family through some tough times. We are so thankful He hears us and takes care of us and helps us - even when we are not at our best!
Peter was 11th at regionals with a 10:30 or so. Not a bad time at all, but not a good time for him. He was a little disappointed in his mile halfway through and did not give it his ALL the rest of the way. Andrew watched and was a little disappointed that some boys did not show up to run and some did not finish the race. One of those tough lessons - why couldn't I run? But he had won the Hardin Park road race earlier in the day with a time in the 17's, so he'd had a good morning. Will was third with a 20:30. We were proud of him too!
Next week is EOG's for Will and the next starts EOC's for Andrew and Peter. They are studying and preparing, and we pray all goes well. It's too stressful, but we are glad to have gotten an early start. We are looking forward to the last day of school!
Sam goes back to the doctor on June 1. We will see about his numbers then. We pray they are much better! He has had a mother following him around checking him and giving him shots - as well as a daddy and brothers! Overall, his numbers are lower, but I hope they are low enough. We don't want them too low!
I am very disappointed in our insurance which makes getting his test strips almost impossible (literally) some days. I have been in touch with our representative Cullie Tarleton several times, and I am very impressed with his quick communication. I am not impressed with the guy from the State Health Plan and will show his email to my pharmacists to make them aware of the "passing the buck" that goes on. I am also disappointed that they are slowly paying some of Sam's doctor bills - making me feel he is being punished for having diabetes. I am sure none of them have to deal with this - or they would think twice about making it even more difficult! But yesterday I was reminded to hand it over to God - hand it over and wait for His guidance. And I am sure He wants action on behalf of so many others this affects.
Andrew is doing well. He has only had one small seizure since he had the flu in February. He still does not look his best (and I mean when he looks healthy), but he is plugging right along; and we are thankful for his attitude and determination. I have not heard from his wrist xray about his bone age yet. I hope Dr. Parker can use those two xrays so he does not need another.
I am so thankful for my friends and family who support me (us). I am so thankful for God's Word and what He has shown me - especially lately. And I am so thankful for God's love and the assurance He is with me (us) every minute.
We are looking forward to a great summer! My new job means LOTS more time with the boys this summer! I am so excited about that. My job can be left at the office, and I work with some of the very best people! I am so thankful and look so forward to time with my boys. I feel like the time I have missed the last three summers was doing and being where God wanted me, but I am so happy He moved me! And I know He did.
Happy Wednesday!
Sam, Will, and I went to Waffle Cone Wednesday and got a treat before we went. Don't tell Peter and Andrew! They were still in school at the time anyway!
Well, we are down to owning one house. And that feels good. We feel the need to simplify, and we were glad that our great renters were able to buy the house. It's done, and we are doing something BIG to celebrate later this year. Not celebrate the sale of the house but to celebrate how God has pulled our family through some tough times. We are so thankful He hears us and takes care of us and helps us - even when we are not at our best!
Peter was 11th at regionals with a 10:30 or so. Not a bad time at all, but not a good time for him. He was a little disappointed in his mile halfway through and did not give it his ALL the rest of the way. Andrew watched and was a little disappointed that some boys did not show up to run and some did not finish the race. One of those tough lessons - why couldn't I run? But he had won the Hardin Park road race earlier in the day with a time in the 17's, so he'd had a good morning. Will was third with a 20:30. We were proud of him too!
Next week is EOG's for Will and the next starts EOC's for Andrew and Peter. They are studying and preparing, and we pray all goes well. It's too stressful, but we are glad to have gotten an early start. We are looking forward to the last day of school!
Sam goes back to the doctor on June 1. We will see about his numbers then. We pray they are much better! He has had a mother following him around checking him and giving him shots - as well as a daddy and brothers! Overall, his numbers are lower, but I hope they are low enough. We don't want them too low!
I am very disappointed in our insurance which makes getting his test strips almost impossible (literally) some days. I have been in touch with our representative Cullie Tarleton several times, and I am very impressed with his quick communication. I am not impressed with the guy from the State Health Plan and will show his email to my pharmacists to make them aware of the "passing the buck" that goes on. I am also disappointed that they are slowly paying some of Sam's doctor bills - making me feel he is being punished for having diabetes. I am sure none of them have to deal with this - or they would think twice about making it even more difficult! But yesterday I was reminded to hand it over to God - hand it over and wait for His guidance. And I am sure He wants action on behalf of so many others this affects.
Andrew is doing well. He has only had one small seizure since he had the flu in February. He still does not look his best (and I mean when he looks healthy), but he is plugging right along; and we are thankful for his attitude and determination. I have not heard from his wrist xray about his bone age yet. I hope Dr. Parker can use those two xrays so he does not need another.
I am so thankful for my friends and family who support me (us). I am so thankful for God's Word and what He has shown me - especially lately. And I am so thankful for God's love and the assurance He is with me (us) every minute.
We are looking forward to a great summer! My new job means LOTS more time with the boys this summer! I am so excited about that. My job can be left at the office, and I work with some of the very best people! I am so thankful and look so forward to time with my boys. I feel like the time I have missed the last three summers was doing and being where God wanted me, but I am so happy He moved me! And I know He did.
Happy Wednesday!
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Is it Friday yet????
It's terrible to wake up and wish the week away! While I feel like I am still being "pounded" with things - some serious, some not (but ALL seem to count), I feel God pulling me through each day and trying (very hard) to show me how to live in the midst of turmoil. I mean, I pass the hospital every day and am thankful I don't have to turn in! That should set the day on a good tone! But I think I have just been worn out for a long long time - I really think it started last year with my old job. If I can get the boys' school year to end on a positive note, then I can have an easier schedule this summer while spending tons more time with them. That time has become precious.
Peter made it to Regionals in the 3200. Andrew missed it by about six seconds - not much. But he is glad it was six and not two. He is ready for what comes next - this summer. And he loves cross country in the fall. We will cheer Peter on and see if he can pull an "Aunt Whitney." She was ranked 32nd (I think) in the nation and still made it to nationals at Duke after the scratches. She was 16th (I think) on the line and came in THIRD (in the nation!!!!!). She ran her best time of course, and I was soooooo proud of her. I was to drive her home. We got past Wilkesboro, and I had to pull over and let her drive. All of the excitement exhausted me - literally. I am sure she was a little tired too, but she was so excited still!
Sam is holding his own. He is doing better with his numbers. He said the other day, "Coke. Yuck." He did not drink a lot of Coke before diabetes, but he would sip out of someone's cup. He said the same thing about gum. I am so thankful for that!
Andrew is getting a new dose of Synthroid - his thyroid medicine. And hopefully it will help his growth. He is doing well. He always has a great attitude and is a great help.
Will is 150% boy. I am trying to get him through the end of the school year and will be so glad when it is over. So many things have slipped by me, and I am so upset with myself. He deserves my attention and has needed it - more than I realized. School is not his number one priority, but it is important. And I want to encourage the things he is good at so he can use them productively later. He has so many talents.
Pete is gearing up for his big yard sale on Thursday. They are literally selling all of the furnishings of Mountaineer Apartments. I think it was the State's idea. He will be glad when it is over, and the stuff is gone!
We close on the little blue house tomorrow. I am ready for things to be simpler, and this is a good way to start. We are glad the people who are buying it will live there. They have since we moved into the house we built. I don't want to live near my new house ever again, so it is for the best. I hope it is a wonderful place for them to raise their boys. It has a wonderful yard and a creek. What more could you need?
Better sign off and read some books with my little blond headed, blue eyed person. He is really into his letters and sounds right now, and he is doing great. He still loves Scooby Doo and never watches some of those shows I cannot stand! There is a good part about having very limited channels. I love to hear him watching PBS and being totally involved. He has quite a personality and has been talking on the phone to Mimi and Daddy. He did not talk to Grandad because he had expected Mimi to pick up. I watch him running and laughing and being so happy, and I am so thankful. I am so thankful when he wakes up in the morning with a smile. Now that should really start my day off right.
Peter made it to Regionals in the 3200. Andrew missed it by about six seconds - not much. But he is glad it was six and not two. He is ready for what comes next - this summer. And he loves cross country in the fall. We will cheer Peter on and see if he can pull an "Aunt Whitney." She was ranked 32nd (I think) in the nation and still made it to nationals at Duke after the scratches. She was 16th (I think) on the line and came in THIRD (in the nation!!!!!). She ran her best time of course, and I was soooooo proud of her. I was to drive her home. We got past Wilkesboro, and I had to pull over and let her drive. All of the excitement exhausted me - literally. I am sure she was a little tired too, but she was so excited still!
Sam is holding his own. He is doing better with his numbers. He said the other day, "Coke. Yuck." He did not drink a lot of Coke before diabetes, but he would sip out of someone's cup. He said the same thing about gum. I am so thankful for that!
Andrew is getting a new dose of Synthroid - his thyroid medicine. And hopefully it will help his growth. He is doing well. He always has a great attitude and is a great help.
Will is 150% boy. I am trying to get him through the end of the school year and will be so glad when it is over. So many things have slipped by me, and I am so upset with myself. He deserves my attention and has needed it - more than I realized. School is not his number one priority, but it is important. And I want to encourage the things he is good at so he can use them productively later. He has so many talents.
Pete is gearing up for his big yard sale on Thursday. They are literally selling all of the furnishings of Mountaineer Apartments. I think it was the State's idea. He will be glad when it is over, and the stuff is gone!
We close on the little blue house tomorrow. I am ready for things to be simpler, and this is a good way to start. We are glad the people who are buying it will live there. They have since we moved into the house we built. I don't want to live near my new house ever again, so it is for the best. I hope it is a wonderful place for them to raise their boys. It has a wonderful yard and a creek. What more could you need?
Better sign off and read some books with my little blond headed, blue eyed person. He is really into his letters and sounds right now, and he is doing great. He still loves Scooby Doo and never watches some of those shows I cannot stand! There is a good part about having very limited channels. I love to hear him watching PBS and being totally involved. He has quite a personality and has been talking on the phone to Mimi and Daddy. He did not talk to Grandad because he had expected Mimi to pick up. I watch him running and laughing and being so happy, and I am so thankful. I am so thankful when he wakes up in the morning with a smile. Now that should really start my day off right.
Friday, May 7, 2010
Friday and the Honda Dealership!
This has been a busy week! We went Wednesday to Hickory to the boys' conference meet. Then I went to Will's meet at Mitchell High School last night. Sam had orientation yesterday and today for kindergarten (and I have not cried one time!). So I was looking forward to getting the oil changed in my car after school and coming HOME! The boys and I walked to Kmart to kill a little time and stayed away about an hour only to come back and find out that we still had another 45 minutes to go! They were fixing a recall on my brakes (for a second I thought maybe I was mixed up and at the wrong dealership - really, I did). I told the guy my son needed a snack since he is diabetic so I would just walk (NOT in my tennis shoes) and get him something. He said they would be done in 45 minutes but did not offer me a ride! So different than the service last time! So we walked to the mall and got a drink. It was not far, but I did not have on the right shoes for walking that long. But we did find Will some worker pants on clearance at TJ Maxx for $3 and $4 and Sam an adorable baseball hat that he needs being so fair. As we walked back, I noticed it was almost 5:00, so we picked up the pace considerably! We got in their parking lot just as they called to let me know my car was ready - over an hour later!!!! Oh well - it was a long afternoon, but it was well spent with two of my boys. Then we picked up a third and are still waiting on the fourth. Pete went to Johnson City to ETSU to see Harry Williams inducted into the Hall of Fame for his achievements. Harry is now chancellor of Delaware State University. He ran at Appalachian and worked in Admissions with me for a little while. We are very proud of him. Pete and Coach Curcio were invited to this event. I am proud of Harry and feel good about the time I invested proofreading for him sometimes!
Andrew's lungs look great - per Dr. Black! He did not see the bronchiectasis on the CT scan which he said is great news! We go back in July and will treat what he sees. We might have to take some beach trips in the winter to get him back on track!
Sam's numbers are better and more consistent. We will enjoy this while it lasts! He did well at his kindergarten orientation and screening. He was excited and seemed to enjoy everything. He is shy, so I was very proud of him. He had Mrs. Duke to hang out with him, but I think she was pleased with how well he did.
Peter and Andrew were first and second in the conference 3200. We find out Monday if they made regionals. They both PR'd by quite a bit - 10:13 and 10:22. Andrew was conference champ last year with around a 10:40, so we hope they both make it. It was a great meet with great efforts from our team. Both the boys and girls won, and many had PR's. What a great day!
Will ran a 6:07 with a good effort - he was not hurting at the end at all and ran a good leg on the 4X400 relay at his middle school meet. I followed the bus back - literally. We were out in the middle of nowhere part of the time. I saw some beautiful mountains - Grandfather looked so pretty on the way there. My parents came. They had no clue you could drive on 19E as long as they did!
I love this Nichole Nordeman song and wanted to share it. "How would I know the morning if I knew not midnight?" This put a lot of things in perspective for me.
"Sunrise" Nichole Nordeman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2HmZXeGOFg
Andrew's lungs look great - per Dr. Black! He did not see the bronchiectasis on the CT scan which he said is great news! We go back in July and will treat what he sees. We might have to take some beach trips in the winter to get him back on track!
Sam's numbers are better and more consistent. We will enjoy this while it lasts! He did well at his kindergarten orientation and screening. He was excited and seemed to enjoy everything. He is shy, so I was very proud of him. He had Mrs. Duke to hang out with him, but I think she was pleased with how well he did.
Peter and Andrew were first and second in the conference 3200. We find out Monday if they made regionals. They both PR'd by quite a bit - 10:13 and 10:22. Andrew was conference champ last year with around a 10:40, so we hope they both make it. It was a great meet with great efforts from our team. Both the boys and girls won, and many had PR's. What a great day!
Will ran a 6:07 with a good effort - he was not hurting at the end at all and ran a good leg on the 4X400 relay at his middle school meet. I followed the bus back - literally. We were out in the middle of nowhere part of the time. I saw some beautiful mountains - Grandfather looked so pretty on the way there. My parents came. They had no clue you could drive on 19E as long as they did!
I love this Nichole Nordeman song and wanted to share it. "How would I know the morning if I knew not midnight?" This put a lot of things in perspective for me.
"Sunrise" Nichole Nordeman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2HmZXeGOFg
If I had the chance
To go back again
Take a different road, bear a lighter load
Tell an easy story
I would walk away
With my yesterdays
And I would not trade what is broken for beauty only
Every valley
Every bitter chill
Made me ready to climb back up the hill
And find that . . .
You are sunrise
You are blue skies
How would I know the morning
If I knew not midnight?
You're my horizon
You're the light of a new dawn
So thank You, thank You
That after the long night, You are sunrise
There's a moment when
Faith caves in
There's a time when every soul is certain God is gone
But every shadow is evidence of sun
And every tomorrow holds out hope for us
For every one of us
You are sunrise
You are blue skies
How would I know the morning
If I knew not midnight?
You're my horizon
You're the light of a new dawn
So thank You, thank You
That after the long night, You are sunrise
You alone will shine
You alone can resurrect this heart of mine
You are sunrise
You are blue skies
How would I know the morning
If I knew not midnight?
You're my horizon
You're the light of a new dawn
So thank You, thank You
That after the long night, You are sunrise
You are sunrise
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